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James Marsters Concert -- Dochawk, 14:06:40 04/15/02 Mon

Is anyone else going to the JM concert this weekend? if, so leave me a message.

[> Re: James Marsters Concert -- Grace, 22:49:04 04/15/02 Mon

Would you please tell me the details about the concert? Where? When? I'd like to go.

[> Re: James Marsters Concert -- Anneth, 08:52:38 04/16/02 Tue

I'm going; flying down from Sacramento Saturday afternoon and dragging an old friend along with me. (He's never going to stop teasing me about it, either...)

Anneth


Excerpts from Jane Espenson's Commentary on Room W/A Vu -- Marie, 16:38:09 04/15/02 Mon

The following are excerpts from Jane Espenson’s commentary on the DVD of Room W/A Vu. Italics are my own comments/paraphrasing; words in capitals are where JE emphasises that word, and she is “JE”, Angel is “A”, Cordelia, “C”, Doyle, “D”, Buffy, “B”, simply for my own convenience! Where things may look a little odd, they’re typed as JE has said them. Also, remember it's not the whole thing - I left out all the "Oh, Charisma did a great job reacting, here" type things, for instance. I hope you find it interesting, anyway.

JE starts by commenting that the humour used on A is very different to that used on B – much darker, and very much character-led. Also that the writers on B watch and discuss the episodes of A, so that they can keep up with it, and in case they are asked to write an episode, or parts of an episode.

Scene: C, after moving out of her own cockroach-infected place, has received a complaint from A that there was peanut butter on the sheets.


There’s a line in this scene where A says “I don’t eat”, which isn’t really true – we’ve seen vampires eat. Spike on B eats ALL the time. It’s a little bit of a licence – I think vampires don’t get nourishment from human food, and they don’t really taste it. The episode, called “I Will Remember You”, where A gets a taste of being human, he can taste FOOD, and it’s a shock to him, like he’d forgotten how good food was when you’re human, so I think there’s some complicated stuff about vampires and eating, and I hope we’ve been consistent in it, but this is the type of thing that sometimes you aren’t and the fans always catch you! The nice thing about that is, if you make a mistake like that about reflections, or invitations, or any other aspect of vampire life, the fans will generally solve it themselves, because they want it to be consistent, because they want to believe that it’s a real world, so they’ll find an explanation that makes everything that they’ve heard be consistent. It’s very helpful for us!

(Scene where C and D enter the apartment, after viewing the grotty ones.)

This always surprised me, that the apartment had an exterior door. I always pictured it opening onto an interior hallway (if you remember, guys, this was actually changed in a later episode), which in my mind made more sense, because A comes and visits her in the daylight. But it is a beautiful apartment….

JE then goes on to talk about the wall, and that the face-in-the-wall was very simply done – rubber wall, actor standing behind it, pressing his face into the rubber.

(Scene: in D’s apartment, A’s fight with Griff, the demon chasing D)


The idea of demons having sort of an underworld, a very complicated society, where they live human- like lives, and have human-like concerns, is something that is very different in the A-world than in the B-world. We see a lot of characters like Spike, particularly vampires, who live in the human world and have to steal things, or go shopping, or find their food, and worry about money and things like that, in the B-world occasionally, but much less. In the B-world, demons tend to just sort of pop up and go “Grrr”, and they exist in the B-world frequently as metaphors for human causes and human conditions and human concerns, whereas in the A-world, they, themselves, live human lives. They’re both very equal. They’re both exactly what you need for the style of stories on those two shows. But it’s an interesting difference. In A, you’re much more likely to have sympathetic demons, who are not evil. In B, all else being equal, you can assume that a demon is evil. On A, you really don’t assume that. There was a whole episode (Judgement) that had to do with A killing a demon who appeared by all evidence to be evil, and who was not. A ended up having to take his place, as a champion of someone who needed protecting. You have to be way careful on A that you kill the right guys!

(Scene: A and D arrive at C’s after her first, spooky, night there)

See – look at him standing there, right where the sunlight could’ve got him. It’s not quite clear how A safely got to that doorway. (A hands C a cactus plant) He’s just given her a cactus as a housewarming present, the notion being that… it was supposed to be an implication that C’s very cactus-like, that she’s got a lot of protective barriers.

Now the way… how does A just walk into that apartment? The way that’s in this particular script is that, early in the episode, she says “When I get an apartment, you’re, like, totally invited”, and that gave him the power to enter this apartment, as if he’d had a specific invitation for this dwelling, which I think is really interesting. In my first draft of this, she went to the door; it looked like he couldn’t come in, and D said “Hey, A, come on in” and A walked in and C says “Oh, my God, how could HE invite you in – he doesn’t even live here! These rules are completely screwed up!”, which was a funny joke, because sometimes our rules DO get screwed up and it might be fun to comment on it, but I think they were very right to ask me to change that, because it would’ve been very confusing for the whole rest of the series – it would have made it very muddy about when a vampire can walk in and when they can’t.

(Scene: back in AI office. C is pouring coffee)

We drink a lot of coffee in A. There was actually an episode of B, I think, where A established that he doesn’t drink coffee, but I think he’s changed his mind!

(JE mentions here that David Greenwald’s original title was “Room with a View”, and that she had an alternative title of “Re: Lease”, but decided to stick with the original, just changing the spelling to “Room W/A Vu” so that it looked like a rental ad.)

(Glenn Quinn’s accent)


There were some things here, where the actor actually HAD that accent, and what we discovered was that sometimes it would make lines that we thought would sound very clear, actually a little incomprehensible, because of the loss of the “T-H” sound… He can do an American accent, so we’d have to go back and have him loop lines with a less exaggerated form of his own accent – so there was a line, I believe, in the previous scene where he says “Ladies and Gentlemen, we have a death” that came out “Ladies and Gentlemen, we have a debt”, so you couldn’t tell what the heck he was talking about, so we had him go back in and re-loop it. Some of the fans, I think, felt that his accent came and went. That wasn’t because of the way he was doing it – that’s because we would have him NOT do it, on purpose, ‘cos you just couldn’t understand it!

(Goes on to talk about not doing much research on ghosts or poltergeists, because they are things that you can say pretty much anything about, but that if anything ‘real’ is talked about she does a lot a research, because they try to get stuff right. Also, they try to be consistent about ‘vampire rules’:

They don’t turn into bats, and they don’t turn into werewolves – other than Dracula, who appeared in an episode of B – and I kinda like that we have the freedom to make up our own rules, and as long as we’re consistent within them, that’s how vampires work.

(Also mentions here that, when complimented on a joke in an episode, it very often turns out to be something that Joss W or David Greenwalt has written.

Phantom Dennis was originally called Bob, but JW didn’t like that, so JE changed it to Phantom Dennis because the Star Wars film had just been released at this time.

Mentions Charisma’s tattoo, which can be briefly seen in a shot – it was felt that Cordelia would not have a tattoo, so they try to miss it if they can. I wonder why they just can’t conceal it with make- up?

Scene: the demons have broken into C’s apartment and are shooting)


This was one of the first times, I think, that we saw demons holding guns, which is something you generally wouldn’t see. For instance, on B, guns are much more of a real-world item, much more of a detective show item, and an adult item. Our characters on B are young enough that, particularly during the High School years, it would be very unpleasant to see them with a gun, whereas criminals in the real world of Los Angeles, it’s somewhat less… it’s more appropriate. It’s more a part of that world.

(Scene: backflash to Dennis being bricked up by Mom)

Now, if you create a character on a television show, which means to say YOU write the episode in which that character appears for the first time, you get paid again, a little additional money – it’s about $300 every time that character appears in a subsequent episode. The character of Phantom Dennis has come back, but since it is not played by an actor – we never see that actor who we see getting boarded up in the wall, we don’t see him again, we just see, sort of wire gags and tricks, involving, you know, the implication of “the ghost”, so I don’t get any money. Kind of a rip-off. (JE says this, not in a nasty, annoyed sort of way, but rather, in a resigned, “one of those things” kind of way.)

(Last scene: C on ‘phone to her old High School friend, Aura)

C refers to the fact that there are celebrities living in her building. She says Steve Paymer lives in this building. He’s David Paymer’s brother (a character actor seen in a lot of movies) (my spelling – I’ve never heard of him, so it’s a guess!), and I put that in because it seemed right for this moment; that it’s something C would be impressed by, and also because Steve Paymer lives in MY apartment building. He lives just across the hall from me – so that’s just a note from my own life.

(End)

[> Much Thanks -- agent156, 17:04:56 04/15/02 Mon

Thank you for going through all the trouble to type all of this up.

Would it be too greedy of me to ask for more?

[> [> I got Angel Season 2 today! -- Rahael, 18:22:12 04/15/02 Mon

Just finished watching Tim Minear's commentary on "Are you Now or have you ever been". Good stuff!

I love the bit about Angel's present of a cactus to Cordelia telling us something about Cordelia. See! See! sometimes a cactus is more than a cactus!

I'm happy to do the transcripty thing for Angel Season 2, if Marie hasn't got it yet.

[> [> [> Please do, Rahael! -- Marie, 01:24:12 04/16/02 Tue

I'm very happy to do others, as I get them, but it takes a long time to do one (TV downstairs, computer upstairs, shorthand mostly forgotten, five-year-old needing just a bit of attention!), so they could take their time appearing:o)

There is actually a Joss/David Fury one on "City of", but as far as I remember, there wasn't a great deal to take out of it - lots of stuff about camera angles, and teasing each other - I'll re-watch it and see if it's transferable to page.

Marie

[> Sometimes, I feel like I'm the only person on Earth w/o a DVD player. -- Apophis, 17:26:47 04/15/02 Mon


[> [> Me too. But I'm waiting patiently for Xmas to come 'round. -- LadyStarlight, 17:45:48 04/15/02 Mon


[> Re: Excerpts from Jane Espenson's Commentary on Room W/A Vu -- Rufus, 01:03:24 04/16/02 Tue

I posted your work on my site...thanks Marie...


That was cool. Was that the first time...? (spoiler)s -- The Last Jack, 19:09:05 04/15/02 Mon

Was that the first time David ever played Angel angry like that? Everytime I can remember seeing him angry, its always been, dark, moody, and no real emotion, just cold menace. This time it was full of emotion, screaming, and firey rage (ugh, that sounded corny, but it sounds right). He should do that more often, it was cool.

The Last Jack

PS: How much you bet Wes doesn't even have a scar from his injury. Ever notice how no one ever scars on this show ;)

[> Oh, Yeah--(SPOILERS for tonight's Angel) -- SingedCat, 19:30:15 04/15/02 Mon

I can only think of it as Angel being utterly humanly crazily furious. The frantic father. There was no trading for his demonic side here-- did anybody else flash back to the Mayor? He was a powerful sorcerer and a huge bigwig in the town, but when he saw Buffy lying in the hospital his attack on her was deeply personal, human rage, pure and simple.

That being said my heart just bled for Wesley. And dammit, why was there no talking in all of this??? If Angel and Wesley had talked about what was going on, nothing could have hurt them. Instead there was loneliness, isolation, distraction, silence, silence, silence-- betrayal, betrayal, Wesley lying dying in a park.

Dammit. My favorite character.

And just on the side, is he even *capable* of dying? Jesus! Stabbed in the throat, shot in the gut, slit throat-- he's the bleeding sacrificial lamb of the series, pun intended. Now *there's* an article. Excise me...:)

[> [> Impression right off the bat ("Forgiving" Spoilers) -- Doriander, 19:50:58 04/15/02 Mon

Sahjhan's motive-- eliminate Connor before Connor grows up to defeat him. So, he sends Holtz to kill Connor. It appears Sahjhan counted on Holtz to kill Darla who's carrying Connor in her womb. Holtz sabotaged that, so he wants Connor dead while still an infant.

Anyone reminded of another Connor here? One John Connor (The Terminator and T2)? Coincidence?

[> [> [> Re: Whew! -- Valhalla, 20:13:37 04/15/02 Mon

The last scene really impressed me. I had even seen one of the spoiler still shots -- Angel lunging at Wes. And right up until he actually turned into crazy Angel, I was thinking that the spoiler shot was a false leak. That was very well played.

I don't remember Angel playing that kind of anger before. Even as Angelus, when he was angry, it was always a little bit evil character comic-book kind of angry, not this deliberate rage.

I'm really glad that they didn't play the misunderstood prophecy card again (even though, the result, for Wesley was pretty much the same).

[> [> [> [> If I were in Wesley's place... -- VampRiley, 20:34:30 04/15/02 Mon

and after I was told about what happened, I would have a big hate on for Angel.


VR

[> [> [> [> [> Re: If I were in Wesley's place... -- sTalking Goat, 22:57:28 04/15/02 Mon

Why? There were all duped but I still think Wes is most in the wrong about not taking what he thought he knew to anyone else.

[> [> [> [> [> [> And Angel, of all people, should be BRIMMING with forgiveness -- Earl Allison, 02:17:50 04/16/02 Tue

Wesley may have been in the wrong, but for someone who has been desperately seeking absolution, someone who has almost always tried to help others reach it (Faith springs to mind), and someone who KNOWS how far a man can slide, Angel seemed rather one-sidedly vicious.

I'd remind him of those lawyers he fed to Drusilla and Darla, or the fact that he was more than willing to kill Lilah in "the White Room," or in a slightly more mitigating way, the hundreds he's maimed, killed, and tortured as Angelus.

For someone who has been seeking, if not absolution (which he finally determined he could never truly have), to make things right in the world, he showed a remarkable lack of understanding to someone who was, until recently, a friend -- well, how does it feel when it's you? Sure, it's petty, but maybe now Angel can see what betrayal is like from the other side -- like when he fired the group to go off on his own little revenge-fest, and his tryst with Darla.

At least Wesley's gesture was meant to protect an innocent, and made with the best knowledge he had -- not at all like Angel's suicide run. Were I Angel, I'd be rethinking my entire raison de etre right about now, because I'm not so sure I'd be worthy of working for the Light anymore -- torture, kidnapping, attempted murder -- not good things.

Take it and run.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: And Angel, of all people, should be BRIMMING with forgiveness -- VampRiley, 13:39:32 04/16/02 Tue

It was important to show the sunrise. It showed that before they found Wesley, several hours at least had passed. Lorne and Angel's conversation showed him being calm and collected. Angel took the time to talk to Wesley calmly to explain where he was coming from. Angel wanted Wes to realize that it was him, not Angelus, that killed him. Wes is not the one who put Connor in Holtz's hands. Gunn and Fred both heard that Wes was innocent and they must have told Angel. Justine is the one who slit his throat and took Connor. But Angel went after him anyway. If he wants to go after someone, go after Justine, Lilah or Linwood.

Wesley was a victim of circumstances. He was played. And if Angel wants to blame the one whose responsible for all of it, he should be looking in the urn.

After Wesley gets a bit better, Gunn and Fred will tell him what was going on.

And if I was in Wesley place and I heard all this, then I would definiely hate Angel for trying to kill me while I was in my hospital bed. I may have had a hand in it, but it was an unknowing one. I didn't want this to happen.

Angel is just having a hard time getting through his pain. He's lashing out. But there is a point of lashing out where a simple apology isn't enough. And Angel definitely crossed it.

I just don't see this as being Wesley's fault.

But since I'm not him, and just a viewer, I'm really enjoying it.

VR

[> [> [> [> I just HAVE to say this.. -- Liz, 16:02:13 04/16/02 Tue

I had heard that leak about the picture of Angel smothering Wes. Or, I had heard "Angel attacks Wes in a hospital bed." I heard it by accident and I wasn't trying to confirm it. But I watched the episode, and I kept thinking, "No, he's still in the park. No, it hasn't happened yet. Ok, now they know the truth and they still haven't found him. Now he's in the hospital but they already know, and Fred & Gunn are right there to tell Angel when he shows up." So I thought it was just a false rumor.

Then Angel shows up, listens to them, appears to understand, and goes in alone. And the entire time in that room I was thinking, "Oh, HELL." Especially when he started talking very gently about how he did not hurt Connor and that he wants Wes to realize that he is Angel, not Angelus.

It was just one of those moments where knowing the spoiler ahead of time made the whole thing even richer and more gripping. That doesn't happen often.

[> [> [> [> Re: Whew! (possibly spoilerish) -- J, 13:18:31 04/17/02 Wed

I'm really glad that they didn't play the misunderstood prophecy card again (even though, the result, for Wesley was pretty much the same).

Yeah, but aren't you concerned that they're setting us up for a misunderstood prophecy plotline? I can see it coming from a mile away now, and I haven't even looked at the spoiler boards!

[> [> [> Re: Impression right off the bat ("Forgiving" Spoilers) -- RichardX1, 08:11:30 04/16/02 Tue

So Sahjhan is playing Apocalypse in this whole Cyclops-Cable ripoff? Interesting...

[> [> Frantic Fathers (Spoilers for Forgiving, Graduation 2) -- Scroll, 19:54:32 04/16/02 Tue

I think you're right on the money with comparing Angel's attempt to smother Wesley with the Mayor's attempt to smother Buffy in Graduation 2. It's a direct parallel that shows how very human both Angel and the Mayor really are despite being a vampire/invincible immortal. When Faith and Buffy have that shared psychic dream, Faith tells Buffy that the key to destroying the Mayor is to play on his human weakness: his love for his daughter, Faith.

And here we have Angel in a similar situation; his son has been 'killed' by one of his best friends. Angel is in a murderous rage, too blinded by grief and hate to think straight. He's in total chaos. (I think that point's been drummed in by the scary little girl in the White Room). And I loved the fact that he made damn sure Wes knew he was Angel, not Angelus, right before he tries to kill him. I totally did not see that coming! It was gripping, to say the least, but I don't know if I can watch this episode again any time soon. It was so *raw*. Too painful to watch twice. But I loved it anyway!

[> Re: No scars -- hoping, 23:26:53 04/15/02 Mon

Anyone else notice that Buffy never has the scars from being bitten when we see her neck (except of course when Dracula notices them). For a girl who doesn't know how to use foundation, she can hide those scars well

[> [> Must be those fabulous Maybelline products! -- Night Repair, 00:07:27 04/16/02 Tue



tonite's angel (spoilers) -- the warden, 21:39:50 04/15/02 Mon

anyone else pissed about this episode? wes is like invincible. how many lives does this cat have? also, angel raging at the end was ridiculus. come on, kill wes with a pillow? couldve just snapped his neck if he really wanted to. hes just acting foolish. theres just something about a vampire yelling death threats at a fatally injured man in the icu at the hospital that makes me laugh.

and i dont understand what the deal is with this prophesy sh*t. if something is prophesized, theres really no way to avoid it. sahjan must know that. hes is, afterall, a time traveller. the ability to travel through time factors in with the prophesies. two conclusions:

1. prophesy is true: connor is going to come back and kill sahjan no matter what is done. it cant be stopped.

2. prophesy is false: connor doesnt kill him. no need to kill connor.

man, i just dont get it, can someone enlighten me?

[> Re: tonite's angel (spoilers) -- sTalking Goat, 22:02:47 04/15/02 Mon

The prophecy thing is really stupid. I have yet to see a prophecy in the entire Buffyverse that comes out exactly as stated, yet everyone puts such stock in them.

Angel's spit addled rant was a little silly. A pillow? Come on, he could have probably widened 'Whats her name's' pathetic attempt at murder (how incompetent must you be to screw up slitting someone's throat? The vein is practically bulging, what do you need landing lights) with a flick of his pinky.

[> usually when people don't succeed it's because they won't/can't let themselves. -- yuri, 00:02:34 04/16/02 Tue

sounds like a line from a self help book, but I completely think that's why neither Angel nor what's- her-[bruised]-face killed Wesley. (Her - still too apprehensive and unsure about the purity of her motives to kill a human. Him - doesn't really want to kill Wes dead, really, come on.)

As for the prophecy, I think it'll still come true. I kept expecting Gru to bust in and kill Sahjan (sp?) and then we'd all be like "ohhhh." (just speculation, guys! I'm a spoiler prude!) I think it'll be funny that we were all expecting the "Father will Kill the Son" prophecy to come true despite Wesley, if really the "Connor will kill Sahjan" prophecy comes true despite Sahjhan.

[> [> spoilers above, natch. -- yuri, 00:04:31 04/16/02 Tue


[> [> Re: usually when people don't succeed it's because they won't/can't let themselves. -- RichardX1, 08:21:11 04/16/02 Tue

Finally, someone else has seen the light!

>>As for the prophecy, I think it'll still come true. I kept expecting Gru to bust in and kill Sahjan (sp?) and then we'd all be like "ohhhh."<<

Finally, someone else has seen the truth! Come, we must bring the news of Groosalug's identity to all unbelievers!

but seriously...

>>I think it'll be funny that we were all expecting the "Father will Kill the Son" prophecy to come true despite Wesley, if really the "Connor will kill Sahjan" prophecy comes true despite Sahjhan.<<

And that's really the point of this story arc, isn't it? Sahjhan was trying to do the same thing that Wesley was: undo prophecy. And as anyone familiar with Greek tragedy knows, those who attempt to undo prophecy usually end up fulfilling it in the process. And I get the feeling that Sahjhan will end up suffering for his hubris even more than Wesley did.


'Reasonable' rage for a parent? (spoilers for Angel 4/15/02) -- Grace, 22:34:40 04/15/02 Mon

As a "rational" person I was a bit perplexed by Angel's rage at the end of this episode. Why kill Wes? What will it accomplish?

I am not a parent and think that my confusion may have its origin in this fact. I don't "really" understand the anger and grief he is experiencing. I own cats and love them more than words and know that if anyone hurt them I would be devastated and very, very angry, but I like to hope that I would maintain some aspect of rational behavior and listen to the explanation of the person that caused the harm. Here, Wes thought he was SAVING Conner, not harming him. His intentions must count for something. Yet, Angel was incapable of listening to this reason and wanted only to lash out at the “cause” of his pain.

The episode reminded me of an experience I had as a teenager. When I was 16, one of my friends ran away from home because she found out she was pregnant. She too was only 16. Unfortunately, the run-away turned rather dramatic very quickly because my friend’s grandfather was a big-shot lawyer who had been getting threats from the mob. The FBI got involved because they were not sure whether the girl had been kidnaped or killed, etc. I didn't know for sure that my friend had run away, but I suspected strongly that she had since she had told her mom she was spending the night at my house and then just disappeared. Plus, I possessed some information which would support my belief that she had run away from home (e.g., that she was pregnant and scared) and that she had not been kidnaped or killed. I thought I should try to put the parent’s at ease so I went to my friend's home and told her parents what I knew. The mom went into a frenzy, threatened me and tried to attack me. The father escorted me out of the house and told me to come back when the mom calmed down. That was 15 years ago and even though the girl and I are still friends, the mom has never spoken to me again.

I tell you this because Angel's rage reminded me of the way the mom acted when I told her that her daughter was pregnant. It made me conclude that when a parent feels/believes their child is threatened or harm they loose all reason and just lash out.

Does something about this relationship supersede rationality??? Am I wrong to reach this conclusion? Any insight?

[> Re: 'Reasonable' rage for a parent? (spoilers for Angel 4/15/02) -- lulabel, 23:11:40 04/15/02 Mon

I'm a parent, and I can say unequivocally that there is nothing in the world resembling the bond between a parent and child. It's hard to articulate, and I know it can sound patronizing to those who don't have kids. I suspect that the relationship with a beloved pet is similar, since pets have the same dependency on you that kids do. I think in human relationships, the closest thing to it is probably the relationship that one has with one's parents as a small child - a very tight and very dependent physical and emotional bond.

Perhaps the best way I can explain it is this - sometimes my kids drive me crazy, sometimes I don't even LIKE them, but I would give up my life for either of them in a heartbeat. I love my parents and I love my husband, but they are responsible for their own lives. As I parent, I feel not only responsible for the health and happiness of my kids, their health and happiness is more important than ANYTHING.

Yes, Angel was totally, completely irrational. But I have to say that as a parent, I totally got it. Angel wasn't just attacking Wes out of rage - it was a total outpouring of all the rage, fear and guilt that he was feeling. I can imagine that the mother who attacked you was in a similar mindset - she was angry and scared out of her mind, feeling guilty that she didn't somehow prevent her daughter's disappearance. She vented it on you, the most convenient target at the time.

[> [> well said! I was about to post but now I don't have to. -- yuri, 00:09:31 04/16/02 Tue


[> [> Re: 'Reasonable' rage for a parent? No...(spoilers for Angel 4/15/02) -- nightfox7, 02:01:30 04/16/02 Tue

but his rage was reasonably when you combine it with the rage he felt at being betrayed by a good friend. Wesley and Angel have a deep relationship filled with trust. Wesley betrays that trust by not telling Angel about the prophecy. As a Watcher and a scholar he should have known better than to trust a prophecy 100%. By telling everbody, includeing Angel, a better plan might have been made on how to best protect the child.

[> [> [> Re: 'Reasonable' rage for a parent? No...(spoilers for Angel 4/15/02) -- Kitt, 07:16:25 04/16/02 Tue

I have to agree with both of the above posts. I know, sounds contradictory, but follow me:
what has happened has all occured withing less than 24 hours since Connor's kidnapping. Angel is operating with the most intense grief/rage/uncertianty possible. He's going to do things that he regrets later, because he has only one clear thought in his head, the thought that ended Sleep Tight: "Connor". I'm a mom, and I agree with what was said above - it is the most intense and important relationship in my life; how much more important must it be for Angel, who never expected to have a son, who watched Darla die for to give their son life?
None of that means that, given time (and god willing, his son back), that Angel won't become more clear-headed about this and see reason. As someone else said, there are a lot more effective ways of killing an icu patient than scraming and holding a pillow over his head - Angel just snapped and let go, I don't think he really wanted to kill Wes on a fundamental level. Personally, I think Wes has an ass-kicking coming for not realizing that he needed to tell the others what he had found BEFORE acting on it. Look at it this way: Connor's a lucky kid to have so many good people (Angel, Wes, and the rest) care so much about him... and an unlucky kid that Angel and Wes are so irrational when they think about him.


"Needles, should have thought of that." spoilers for Angel: Forgiving -- Rufus, 22:35:52 04/15/02 Mon

First off...loved tonights ep which started off the evening that Connor was taken. The episode is called Forgiving, an easy word to give lip service to, hard to actually do. All the characters were in a bad situation. All did the best they could with what they knew. And the facts weren't always clear or the truth. Fred was the one who wanted to know why Wesley would do what he did with Connor, she just couldn't see the man she knew would betray everyone. Angel didn't much care and was out for a way to find his kid....if not find then get revenge, he was put in the same spot he put Holtz in so long ago, and we know what that pain caused Holtz to do.

The first thing we notice is that without Cordy there is no key to the file system she has concocted. Without Wesley, there is no research guy, no archaic lingo guy, no diaries with pertinent information....no Angel Investigations. The whole thing is kaplooey. But Angel was no longer thinking about business, or anything but making those who took his son pay.

I have to admit a guilty pleasure of seeing a Wolfram and Hart Project head of blah blah blah, all hogtied and lost for legal terms for his situation. What is it Wesley said in another episode...."What happens when you cut off the head of a snake....you piss off all the other snakes"...Angel wasn't there for that one I guess. Cause Angel has pissed off at least one or a sore necked two, Wolfram and Hart people. But the worst thing for any employee of the W and H is what Angel said when Linwood threatened him....

Angel: They'd kill you before they kill me.

Is that comment a checkmate or something. Well to get on with it...Angel wanted to get his fists onto a Sahjan he could reach out and touch, and Linwood was the way to do it. So what is a little needle work between friends? This sent Angel off to the "White Room". I've seen a white type room before and it housed the Oracles....so I guess the bad and good guys share the same colour scheme. Inside of this room that Lilah wasn't trusted to know about for three years, was an innocent looking little girl...who has a thing for red. We did find out about Sahjan....he started out solid, and a pain in the ass of the powers who may have liked a spot of trouble, but hated total chaos. So Sahjan was made into an insubstantial man. Before then he did the torture, death and destruction thing just a bit too well. Angel wanted him solid without a thought of what would be powerful enough to make even the dark evil side want to take him out of game. Angel wanted revenge.

One thing I have to mention is Fred, she is the one that figured it out...figured out what Justine was all about, and it isn't happiness, and found the information she needed by looking at the randomly placed garbage heap at the Holtz training center. She was the one that told Justine that losing Holtz must be like losing a father (sure)or worse.......that random garbage heap told Fred to look in the trash for Wesleys diaries. She then uttered some words I hope to not hear again..."Throw me out"

Those diaries showed Wesley's state of mind, and he was afraid...The Father shall kill the son...Wesley tried everything he could then do the only thing he thought was left to protect Angel by taking his son. Fred understands that Gunn and the Host can figure it out, Angel seemed to get it, say the words, appear to mean them...until he came face to face with a gravely injured Wesley in the hospital. Angel decided to then engage in a very loud one sided pillow fight. The look in Wesley's face when Angel told him that he didn't turn evil, wanted to let Wes know that it wasn't Angelus, but Angel. That was the worst thing that could happen. The Angel that went through an epiphany, seemed to forget that like he, Wesley had done the best with the information he had. There was no malicious intent, only the need to save Connor and Angel.....from a Prophesy that had been changed by the time shifting Sahjan. Sahjan was attempting to save himself form the one sired by a vampire who would grow into manhood and kill Sahjann.

Back to forgiveness. Justine, she believed the wrong man, did things that she would never have done had she not met him, trusted him, loved him. Holtz only wanted to raise Connor as his own to spite Angel. Can Justine forgive herself for slitting a man's throat? Can she redeem herself over and above trapping Sahjann in a jar (left by the demon hating Holz)? Can Wesley come to terms with being fooled by forged prophecies (you know Sahjann could have made it easier for all of us by initialing any changes)? Can Angel first forgive himself for having such a taste for revenge that he forgets his friends, forgets his quest for redemption. Can Angel forgive Wesley for doing the best he could, sacrificing everything he stood for to protect Connor? Forgiveness, it's easy to say the word but harder to mean what you say. Angel proved that tonight.

[> very well said. -- neaux, 04:41:51 04/16/02 Tue


[> Good thoughts and here's another.. -- AurraSing, 06:15:12 04/16/02 Tue

Is Justine warming a bunk in a jail cell right now? I think she's a loaded cannon if she is willing to slit human throats for the cause.

[> [> Apparantly Murder and Attempted Murder of Humans.. -- Docahwk, 11:29:15 04/16/02 Tue

is only a crime in the Buffyverse if they are committed by Faith. Angel attempted the murder of Wesley infront of two orderlies at least. Thats an attempted murder arrest even if not conviction. I understand about the need for suspension of disbelief, but for a show that built the destruction of a character (Faith) on her accidental murder of a human and hearing continuously that humans are different, there is a definite double standard.

[> [> [> Re: Apparantly Murder and Attempted Murder of Humans.. -- Rufus, 13:02:09 04/16/02 Tue

Wait a minute here, Faith accidentally killed the Mayors aide, but then went on to ,without hesitation, and a song in her heart, kill that Professor. That man had only written some books and was no threat to anyone or thing. Which is a whole different box of cookies compared to another situation surrounding a BTVS character.


Two kinds of monsters -- Grace, 22:55:20 04/15/02 Mon

Watching re-runs again:
Today, Giles said that as far as he could see it there were two kinds of monsters: (1) those who were capable of redemption (or more importantly looking for it) and (2) those who are devoid of humanity and could not respond to reason or love.

Very interesting distinction. Where does Spike fall?
I believe he is very much in search of redemption (even if it is not clear if he can find it) and he most definitely responds to reason and love.

Is this the only explanation of "monsters" we have gotten in the show? All you guys who have the entire show memorized--would you please quote me some other examples?

[> Re: Two kinds of monsters -- skeeve, 12:03:27 04/16/02 Tue

Spike is clearly not in category 2: he responds to reason and love. Either he is in category 1, he is not a monster, or Giles needs more categories.

[> [> Giles needs more categories -- AngelVSAngelus, 12:09:56 04/16/02 Tue

Because our Spike would seem to fit into neither of those. He is neither seeking to make up for any thing he's done in the past, nor does he not respond to love and reason. I think Gile's use of love as a moral identifier is not a wise one. We've seen several indications in the past of love's ability to be the motivator of both good (Buffy's constant sacrifice) and evil (Spike's apocalypse for Dru, Angel's current vengeance-for-Connor rampage).

[> [> [> Re: Giles needs more categories -- verdantheart, 12:35:40 04/16/02 Tue

The key phrase is "capable of." Following Giles' explanation, Spike would be capable of redemption because he responds to love/reason. That does not mean that he is following up or actually redeeming himself, just that the potential is present.

In other words, some monsters have the capacity for redemption, others do not. Whether or not that capacity is fulfilled depends on the monster and his/her circumstances.


Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- The Watcher, 00:11:23 04/16/02 Tue

We like to think that we can be forgiving people. And when we look at other people and their conflicts we ask ourselves why can't they forgive each other and live in peace.

Well, it isn't within us to forgive. When someone has inflicted so much pain on you, you can't just move on, forgive and forget. When it happens to you personally you realize you can never forgive. That's something I realized last year. That it is naive to expect people to forgive those who have harmed them so deeply.

Angel's reaction was not one of a demon, but of a human. For all the talk otherwise, this is what's within us. And there is no getting around that. It's our nature. And as such we can't deny this basic need. Justine, Holtz, Angel. For them all that's left is the need for revenge. We might think that if we were them we wouldn't have behaved that way. But we are wrong.

[> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible (Spoilers) -- Keyster, 00:17:16 04/16/02 Tue

Even Gunn talked of revenge tonight.

Had Angel harmed Winfred Gunn said that he would have slayed him.

No, it is naive to think that forgiveness is possible. There are some acts that are simply unforgivable, regardless of any other consideration.

[> [> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible (Spoilers) -- Keyster, 00:21:21 04/16/02 Tue

And let us not forget Fred's little act of revenge. Even though it was far far far more mild than the rest. She had to slap Justine when Justine told her that she killed Wesley.

No, the need for revenge is within all of us and has to come out in one form or another.

[> [> it's naive to think that forgiveness is easy, debilitating to think it's impossible. -- yuri, 01:20:22 04/16/02 Tue

And even if there are "some acts that are simply unforgivable," (I'm not sure what I believe) they are different for everybody. It is as false to say everyone would have acted the way Angel et al did as it is to say that their feelings are totally out of line and unreal. Not everyone would have wanted to smother Wesley, we all have different buttons and different reactions to their being pushed, but they're all equally valid/invalid and true.

[> Wrong. People have and continue to forgive worse. -- bookworm, 06:58:44 04/16/02 Tue

Human beings are capable of far more than revenge and hatred, even in the face of overwhelming pain and betrayal. There are parents whose children have been murdered who visit the murderers in prison and pray with them. There was a grand duchess in Russia whose husband was blown to pieces by a bomb in front of her. She picked up pieces of his flesh. Later she went to the prison to visit his assassin and beg him to repent so his soul would be saved. Those murderers didn't have the best of intentions, either. They weren't trying to save Angel's child's life. Forgiveness may be difficult, but it's not impossible. The natural reaction to the loss of a child does not have to be an attempt to strangle the person who took the child.

[> [> Re: Wrong. People have and continue to forgive worse. -- Arethusa, 09:55:29 04/16/02 Tue

Be patient please: I'm kinda thinking aloud here.
How forgiving is handled depends on the needs and character of the betrayed one and the betrayer. Giles said one forgives because the betrayer needs it, but the victim sometimes needs it even more, to be able to move on, not forgetting the betrayal necessarily, but not dwelling on it either. (I Only Have Eyes For You)
When someone betrays you out of evil motives, forgiveness is easy; you don't have to take that person's guilt or fear into account. You can feel pure, clean anger, then let it burn out, almost cleansing you inside, like a cauterizing burn. Angel knew what he'd done to Holtz was beyond forgiving, and neither seemed interested in the matter. Holtz wasn't, I think, interested in forgiving or even revenge. If he were, he would have forgiven Angel or would have tried to kill Angel or Connor. It seemed he just wanted to even the score, and, in his half-mad grief, replace some of what he lost. He wanted his wife and children back.
When someone who loves you and whom you love betrays you, the situation becomes much more messy. You feel guilty for hating them when they love you so much. You know the person well, so often you know they did it out of fear, insecurity, misplaced pride, or some other all-too-human failing, one that you might have yourself. Wes is insecure, we know, and Cordelia's not-infrequent digs at his past mistakes, especially concerning prophesies, probably made him reluctant to say anything. What if he were wrong again? Cordy would make fun of him, Angel would be worried (and angered) unnecessarily, and he'd look like a fool in front of Fred and Gunn. Every time Wes's confidence builds, it gets knocked down again, and an insecure person doesn't always have the resiliancy and self-confidence to deal with set-backs, small or large.
Throughout the episode it looked as if Fred would find the reason for Wes's actions, Wes would finally be found, and Angel would probably forgive him. When Angel was so careful to tell Wes that he was not Angelus, I was sure of it. Then the attack, which couldn't have been meant to be fatal. Come on, a pillow? A couple of orderlies and Gunn holding him off? Even if you take into account Angel would't want to kill a human in plain sight, he surely would have wanted to see Wes's face when he killed him. But he was screaming in rage, unlike any we've seen. Angel told Cordelia that his murders were never about rage, they were about "pain and the pleasure." (Billy) Angelus told Spike it was the artistry of the kill he was interested in. (Fool For Love) He was cool and deliberate with Linwood. I think he wanted to scare Wes very deeply. I think he wants to punish him.
Angel's sins were those of a weak man-drunkeness, lechery, laziness. Despite his father's bullying, Angel's anger was passive until he died. Angelus's sins were cooly and gleefully carried out. For the first time, we have a combination of Angelus' deliberateness and Angel's rage. Forgiveness is the last thing on his mind.

Quotes by Psyche.

[> [> [> It's not the monster, it's the man. -- Angelus's victim, 23:09:17 04/16/02 Tue

Wes would finally be found, and Angel would probably forgive him. When Angel was so careful to tell Wes that he was not Angelus, I was sure of it...

Actually, it was when Angel was so careful to tell Wes that he wasn't Angelus that I knew for sure that Wesley was in for it.

It kind of reminded me of the statement Giles gave to Ben ... "she isn't like US." That signaled to me that Ben was doomed.

Angel wanted Wesley to know that this time it wasn't the demon speaking and doing this act. No, this wasn't the vampire inside. It was the human soul inside Angel compelling him to do it.

For some reason, it also reminded me of something Angel once said to Buffy. It isn't the demon but the man that needs to be killed.

No, It wasn't Angelus, it was Angel.

I have a related question though. When Angel puts on his "Vampire face" does that give him greater physical strength? Unless I am mistaken he didn't go all vampiry when he attacked Wesley, perhaps further symbolizing that this was all Angel, and no Angelus.

[> [> [> It was all Angel -- Keyster, 23:32:33 04/16/02 Tue

"For the first time, we have a combination of Angelus' deliberateness and Angel's rage. Forgiveness is the last thing on his mind."

Angelus wasn't involved it this at all. That was the whole point of Angel explaining who it was doing the killing.

Before we always had the ambiguiety. Yes Angel killed Ms Calendar, tortured Giles, etc, etc. BUT it wasn't really Angel. It was the Vampire inside. It was Angelus. It was almost(but not quite) like there were two different people.

But the point of the explanation is to make it really clear to Wesley that this isn't Angelus speaking. THIS IS ANGEL. It was hard enough trusting Angel when they knew what Angelus was capable of. But now they know the man apart from the monster.

I like the actor who plays Wesley. And for reasons of casting I know this wouldn't happen. But I see the only thing for Wesley to do is to get as far away from Los Angeles as possible (perhaps Fiji). Be sure not to go out at night, but instead stay in his own residence. And never invite anyone in.

[> [> [> [> Re: It was all Angel -- Arethusa, 07:42:28 04/17/02 Wed

I didn't mean Angelus was there in any way, shape or form. I understood that that's why Angel said what he did to Wes. I meant to point out that for the first time (I think) we see Angel behaving as Angelus would-cool and deliberate-despite his enormous rage.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: It was all Angel -- J, 12:35:48 04/17/02 Wed

There have been hints on both BtVS and A that becoming a vampire doesn't change effect as dramatic a personality change as one might expect. Recall the BtVS ep "Amends," where the first evil torments Angel about his cruel nature (it's not so much about Angelus, although being Angelus did allow Angel to shed all his guilt) and the aside in "Doppleganland" where Angel implies that vampires are a lot more like their human counterparts than commonly believed.

I guess my point is that Angel is and always has been capable of enormous cruelty (wouldn't it have been less cruel to snap Wes' neck than to smother him?), whether or not he's got a soul to keep him in check. Even if this is new, it's not unexpected.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: It was all Angel -- Keyster, 18:34:13 04/17/02 Wed

Angelus would have been more creative. Perhaps he would have had Wesley placed in his office "reading his books". Fred and Gunn comes in glad that they found him. Then they see that he is dead. Pages of his books shoved down his throat.


Compare what Angel attempted to do with Wesley to what Angelus did to Ms Calendar. Or even with Angelus did to Holtz's family.

[> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- RichardX1, 09:04:07 04/16/02 Tue

In Angel's universe, it isn't possible to defeat Evil either. So should he stop doing that, like he planned when he decided to (expletive) his brains (and his soul) out?

Sure forgiveness is impossible. As a priest said on an ep of Babylon 5, "I don't think there can ever be anything more difficult." But then again, if you think you're only on this earth to do the easy stuff, you're in for a universe of disappointment (believe me).

If you keep that rage in your heart and give in to the desire for vengeance, you're even worse than an animal. Animals kill for food and defense (with the exceptions of elephants, chimpanzees, and maybe cetaceans, which I find as evidence of their possible sentience, but I digress). A beast isn't going to hunt down someone who killed its parent, child, or sibling and subject it to pain and death just to get back at it.

Furthermore, if you become obsessed with vengeance, it overwhelms you and takes control of you, instead of the other way around. The Gypsy in "Surprise/Innocence" put it best: "It commands... we merely play a part." It's that whole "Once you start down the Dark path forever will it control your destiny, consume you it will!" thing all over again.

Sorry, I tend to ramble. Remember, the 1:00 show is different from the 12:00 show!

[> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- celticross, 11:06:57 04/16/02 Tue

Um...hi, "The Watcher". That's a very broad statement you made, and if you truly believe it, I'm sorry. Forgiveness is, in my opinion, the only thing that stands between us and the darkest sides of our nature. If not for it, we have nothing to shield us from true bitterness of spirit. My apologies if I sound preachy, but I felt the need to state my complete disagreement.

[> [> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- Arethusa, 11:36:47 04/16/02 Tue

When someone betrays us, they steal some of our self-respect. We trusted them, maybe even loved them, and they made a fool of us. We can't trust our judgement anymore. If we forgive, we have to give up all of our rightous anger and trust completely again. Very, very difficult.
Forgiveness has been co-opted by religion as an obligation, a requirement by God and preachers. Not forgiving is maybe even seen as a sign of false pride. Society sees it as a good thing, because it might prevent an endless, destructive loop of retaliation. But I think that there can be something destructive in forgiveness. It's like "your pain matters more than mine, so I have to ease your pain at the cost of my own." I want my pain, I need it, because it gives me back my self-respect. It lets me know that what happened is your fault, not mine. It holds at bay the shame of being deceived, of being a victim. It lessens the overwhelming feelings of guilt for not preventing or stopping the harmful act, which is always there even if the victim is totally blameless. And although these emotions may be wrong, they help us deal with the crushing burden of being betrayed.
Hey, I'm not overidentifying much, are I?

[> [> [> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- Arethusa, 11:39:37 04/16/02 Tue

Woops. "am I"

[> [> [> [> Couldn't agree more Arethusa -- Rahael, 15:38:21 04/16/02 Tue

Forgiveness can't just be given - it's something you achieve at great cost to yourself. And you can't just will it to be there. But not giving forgiveness does not mean that you allow vengeance to rule your life; nor demand that the transgressor himself suffer pain; or that you demand an eye for an eye.

Not forgiving can be as redemptive as forgiving. It can be as reasoned and as wise and as self aware. It can be a decision that some outrages cannot be excused, or erased away. Of course, my definition of 'forgiving' and 'not forgiving' is probably different from a lot of other people. But I can walk on in peace in my life, having not forgiven. Or am I just deluding myself about my equanimity?

Perhaps I'll just have to admit that I'm nowhere near the divine forgiveness thing, and closer to the human erring.

[> [> [> [> [> Screw forgiveness!!!!!! -- VampRiley, 20:13:30 04/16/02 Tue

But I can walk on in peace in my life, having not forgiven.

I can totally relate. Who says you have to forgive? NOT ME.

I don't know about you, but my "walking on in peace" has one very basic fact that underlies it: Not caring one damn bit about the other person and what they do from that point on coupled with a very "bored now" attitude.

Or is this all just a bigger problem of me shutting down emotionally that occures virtually instantaneously?

Hmm...

VR

[> [> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- Keyster, 00:35:20 04/17/02 Wed

"That's a very broad statement you made, and if you truly believe it, I'm sorry. Forgiveness is, in my opinion, the only thing that stands between us and the darkest sides of our nature. "

I know this is Buffy chat but for a moment let me digress into another program.

On Xena, Xena's troops killed Callistos family. Callisto devoted the rest of her life to being the source of pain for Xena, even though Xena became good.

Gabrielle, who never knew the bad Xena of course disapproved of Callistos thirst for revenge. Of course she had never suffered the type of pain Callisto did. But when Callisto killed her husband, the first thing Gabrielle did was demand that Xena teach her how to fight so she could seek out revenge against Callisto. So much for that peace and love thing, huh Gabby?

I have always wondered, had it been Gabrielle's village and Gabrielle's family that Xena's troops burned, would she have turned out to be like Callisto seeking out revenge against Xena? And would Callisto have turned out just like Gabrielle?

Getting back to Angel. There are some acts that are unforgivable. Perhaps there are a few saints out there who could, but for all but a few of us, it leaves us with a burning hatred. We can't forgive something that has caused so much pain and lost. Even if we want to try to forgive, we can't. It's not within us to.

[> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- verdantheart, 13:12:08 04/16/02 Tue

Frankly, I believe in forgiveness. Certainly people have succeeded in forgiving the most heinous of acts.

Whether or not you can forgive depends on your outlook. If you believe, as Arethusa, "your pain matters more than mine, so I have to ease your pain at the cost of my own," of course you cannot forgive. I don't say that this is not a valid viewpoint! I just happen to disagree. And perhaps it's easy for me to talk because the betrayals in my life have been relatively minor.

However, if you take a different view, it becomes easier to forgive. I believe that evil acts, hatred, and even vengeance exert a terrible burden upon the one who acts/feels (think of it as karma, if you like). That's why revenge is almost never satisfying. Often there is no possible redress for a wrong (on Earth, anyway); no way to "even the books."

Forgiveness frees the forgiver, who is no longer consumed by feelings of being wrong but can carry on. The forgiven person must face the (possibly karmic) consequences of his/her acts. It is up to that person to repent or not. However, for this to work, the forgiver must truly forgive in his/her heart and give away the pain. This is a most difficult thing to do. Anyone who has eyes to look at this world can see that.

But, hey, I'm Christian.

[> [> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- Arethusa, 14:00:55 04/16/02 Tue

I'm talking about circumstances where the wrong is so severe that it changes everything about one's life and view of self. Forgiving and repentance are moot because the injury has permanently and irrevocably harmed the victim, and, as you say, the score can never be settled. Even if the injured person totally forgives and tries to forget, the changed circumstances make the pain never-ending.
There was a reason that Angel babbled on about wanting to see all of Conner's little firsts in "Loyalty," and it wasn't to show DorkyAngel. Because of Wes's mistakes, Angel will never see his son take a first step, say "Daddy" for the first time, or play hockey. To hold on to pain and anger is wrong and harmful to one's self, I know that, but sometimes no matter how much pain one gives away, more rushes in to fill the void. Maybe that's why people cling to their faith; perhaps for them it fills the hole smashed into one's life by another's actions.
But what do you do when the pain has destroyed faith, too?

[> [> Re: Forgiveness isn't Human -- Keyster, 00:12:43 04/17/02 Wed

Perhaps Buffy could have forgiven Wesley (but she is a saint), but for 98 percent of the rest of humanity, in the face of great pain and life changing lost, nope. Not going to happen.

Those who think it's possible haven't really suffered the kind of pain and lost we are talking about. I thought it was possible before last year. If people could just find it in their hearts to forgive, and end the cycle of violence. Well I lived a sheltered life didn't I.

It was extremely naive to think that all but a small fraction of us (saints) could ever forgive something so terrible, so horrific. For the only response to having such pain inflicted is an unending hatred towards those who have inflicted such pain. Revenge is the only release. Forgiveness just isn't possible.

Someone who have never suffered such pain, had such pain inflicted upon them might think that forgiveness is possible, but that is just because they have never had it happen to them. Forgiveness for all but a few just isn't part of our makeup.

Hate burns within us. It's what keeps us warm to fill our lost.

I found it interesting that not only Angel, but also Gunn, and even to a small degree Fred (hitting Justine) all succumed to at least entertaining revenge in their heart. There's just no getting away from it. It becomes part of who we are.

[> [> [> Re: Forgiveness isn't Human -- LittleBit, 09:18:28 04/17/02 Wed

"For the only response to having such pain inflicted is an unending hatred towards those who have inflicted such pain. Revenge is the only release. Forgiveness just isn't possible."

May I point out that this is precisely what the Romany gypsy clan believes - vengeance. That Angel must live in eternal torment for the pain he inflicted on them. And, may I also point out that when Angelus was freed from the soul, he made certain that Janna (Jenny) and her Uncle were killed. The two who were there solely to ensure that the torment didn't lessen. The cycle continues.

We don't have to forgive but sometimes we have to let the anger go, and try to figure out how to prevent it from happening again.

[> Re: Forgiveness Just isn't Possible -- Gwyn, 18:44:26 04/16/02 Tue

I haven't read all the posts in this thread but those that I have seem to be operating on the Western/Christian definition of forgiveness. Not coming from that perspective changes the whole view of it I think. If you set that aside, then there is no obligation on Angel to forgive Wesley. Only Angel, being the wronged one can do it, of course. In addition, Angel might not be obliged to do it if Wesley did not ask for it. And Wesley may not be entitled to it without significant changes in his conduct that would allow Angel to forgive him, and ensure that Wesley did not repeat similar acts and cause other disasters to happen. These are not conditions of the Christian view of forgiveness, of course, but they are of other world/religious views.

I'm not endorsing Angel's revenge. But, Wesley decided to play with the destiny of others, he will have to bear the consequences of that. He will, of course, when he knows that he was simply tricked. He, the expert reader of prophecies, succumbed to a forgery. Not very clever that when you come down to it. Shouldn't that have been the first thing to consider. And he took preventing the prophecy upon himself...a lot of hubris there don't you think?

[> Forgiveness IS possible - it is a CHOICE... -- RabidHarpy, 10:37:16 04/17/02 Wed

...as creatures of free will I refuse to believe that our entire lives can be completely controlled by the events and circumstances around us. I choose to believe that how I react to things - whether they are good or bad - is MY choice. Forgetting the actual events is much more difficult, unless by "forgetting" we mean that we refuse to let that particular incident control how we will react to the people involved, similar circumstances in the future, etc.

A wise person once told me:
"Life is 1% what happens TO us, and 99% how we choose to react to the things that happen to us."

Just my 2 pesos worth...

[P.S. I think Angel's treatment of Wesley is appalling - and completely unproductive in getting Connor back. The last thing we need is for Angel's rejection to lead to Wesley's teaming up with W&H, (although we all know Wesley's too smart for that!) Wes is the kind of guy you want FOR your team, not against it - besides being the "brains", he's also the "heart" - fiercely protective and loyal with a strong sense of justice.]

[> [> Re: Forgiveness IS possible - it is a CHOICE... -- Keyster, 18:37:58 04/17/02 Wed

You probably haven't had great pain inflicted upon you. You would like to think forgiveness is possible, but it isn't. Forgiveness to such infliction of pain just isn't part of the human makeup.

[> [> Re: Forgiveness IS Not possible - it is Human Nature -- Keyster, 22:13:40 04/17/02 Wed

When deep pain has been inflicted on one person by another, the victim can never forgive. Even if they want to forgive, they can't.

It's not in your nature.

Now if you are talking about small things, yes, you can forgive. But we are talking life changing significant lost and/or pain here. There is no forgiveness for something like that. Some things are unforgiveable.

If someone ever killed Dawn, Buffy would have to kill that person. If she can't forgive, no one can.

Angel acted in the most human way possible. Perhaps that was what made it so scary. No it wasn't Angelus (a vampire). It was Angel (a human being).

Placed in a similar situation we would act in a similar way that Angel acted. It's human nature. There's no getting away from it.

We might wish or hope that it isn't that way. But such a wish is a fairytale. In reality forgiveness after inflicting such pain is a myth. Anyone who doesn't believe that just hasn't been a victim of such pain.


X-Rays: quick Q's -- yuri, 01:31:07 04/16/02 Tue

Was it just me or were the X-Rays in Wesley's hospital room really funky looking? Could someone who has a better idea (and who taped the show) tell me if I'm imagining things? And while I'm thinking about it, why did the writers choose to have the bum hide him, and leave his journey to the hospital completely up to speculation? Significance?
(I'm indulging myself here, asking my questions freely w/o making the effort to answer them yet, hope y'all don't mind too much!)

P.S. some really amazing stuff went down here this weekend (not that that's unusual!). I'm sorry I didn't check up and participate, but it was lovely to go read everything. It's nice to see such a long, non-archived board (thanks, Masq, if you're pulling strings).

[> and another x-ray q. -- anom, 21:47:53 04/16/02 Tue

Why take x-rays at all for a patient with a slashed throat? The circumstances were known, & they weren't the kind that might cause injuries you'd need an x-ray to check for; the wound was quite visible & open (so to speak) to inspection without any imaging techniques. (Dochawk or anyone else w/medical creds--is there any reason the hospital would have had x-rays taken?)

See, this is the kind of wasteful unnecessary testing that drives health care costs up!

[> [> Quick answers to x-ray questions -- Kitt, 07:35:39 04/17/02 Wed

An unidentified 30-something white male with a slashed throat hits my ER, I'm gonna get x-rays that I think I might need, even if the odds are fairly low. From what I saw, they had the following pictures:
skull xray - this is standard; someone comes in with neck injuries, you assume they have head injuries 'cause often they do.
Chest xray - probably done as standard, tho they could have been checking to see if the damage to his trachea caused him to aspirate (inhale into his lungs) anything... although most docs wouldn't hang the sill thing upside down!! (somebody needs a medical consultant, Joss!)
I THINK I also saw a lateral neck Xray, which again would be fairly standard in the situation - neck injury, check and make sure that part of whatever cut him didn't stay behind.
As for Wes's injuries, they mention damage to the trachea and blood loss. Now, given that he could have been rescued at any point after the bum stole his wallet and left him in the bushes, it's possible he did survive (I know, more lives than a cat, follow me on this one guys)
The trachea is the most anterior (forward) structure in the neck, and particularly sticks out in males (adam's apple), and is therefore most likely to be damaged. Typical slashing injuries will be shallowest at the ends and deepest in the middle (forensics is a hobby of mine, I was the local coroner for a while out here in the boonies), and for all the 'pulsing right there', the jugular vein is closer to the surface and more easily cut than the carotid artery. Cut the carotid, Wes would have died before Fred and Gunn got there the first time... but also a hand to the throat wouldn't have stopped it from spurting, which it NEVER did (spurt, that is), so we can safely assume Justine never nicked either carotid aretery. The jugular carries a lot of blood, but it's a low pressure vessel - you can block it with compression, and if he holds down tight enough for long enough, it may clot off... or, if it is sliced through, the vessel will tend to contract down (reflex to prevent blood loss, happens with all major vessels), both of which might keep the blood loss low enough for Wes to be rescued. He'll need surgery to repair the damage, and probably be hoarse for the rest of his life, but I've both read about and seen cases where people with these kinds of injuries lived for hours without medical care. Wes is just one lucky SOB... until Angel gets his hands on him, that is.

[> [> [> Thanks. That makes it a lot clearer. -- Cactus Watcher, 09:02:41 04/17/02 Wed

SOMETHING looked strange about that chest x-ray. I probably wouldn't have had the sense to turn it over, either. ;o)


Wolfram and Hart -- incompetant? (and a few other comments on last night's "Angel") -- Earl Allison, 02:10:31 04/16/02 Tue

I am getting royally sick and tired of the new, incompetant Wolfram and Hart.

Does anyone ELSE remember how difficult it was originally for Angel to even get inside undetected? Now he's doing it every other week, with so much ease that it isn't even worth showing on- screen.

What's the deal? The firm used to be a credible evil, like the Borg used to be on Star Trek, but overuse and poor writing defanged them, and seems to be doing the same for W&H.

Okay, minor nit, but how in heck did Wesley survive, what with bleeding for a good long time in the park? I mean, Kendra died soon after her throat was cut, and there wasn't even any blood at the scene :) I know it was meant to be that Wesley survive, but this just seems, as I've said before, a slap in the face to Kendra ...

Angel's rage. Understandable, but not in the least sympathetic, especially not for someone who has visited far worse torments on others, and with the sole intent of causing pain -- like locking those lawyers in with Darla and Drusilla, or being totally willing to kill Lilah in "the White Room." Maybe he'll calm down, maybe he won't -- I just know that, until and unless he does, he's unstable, and I wouldn't turn my back on him.

Take it and run.

[> They let him in -- Pete, 03:17:07 04/16/02 Tue

Angel threatened Linwood, who then ordered Lilah to give Angel whatever he wanted. He didn't need to break in.

I do however find it hard to believe that Angel would allow Lilah to live after all she's done to him. Whatever happened to "I'm gonna burn that lawfirm to the ground" and "no begging; that comes later" and "with transfusions I could keep you alive indefinitely?" Angel and Buffy have never had any real compunctions about killing evil humans (see ATPOBTVS's page on Buffy's human body count.) Now no matter what Lilah does, Angel just kind of wags his finger and says, "Oh, you kidder. Let's have a drink together like we're old chums."

Realistically, Angel would have killed Lilah, Lindsey, Linwood, and the rest long ago without even breaking a sweat. Not that that would affect the Senior Partners' plans, but still. Given his feelings for Cordy, That Vision Thing would have been the last straw. When we heard Angel's voice break when he talked about Cordy bringing gifts for Connor, I thought that was a much more powerful moment than his yelling at Wesley.

[> [> They let him in -- THIS time, but how ... -- Earl Allison, 03:34:32 04/16/02 Tue

But how did he get Linwood? And how was he able to stroll into Wolfram and Hart to threaten Linwood a few weeks ago to cut him, and tell him that anything Connor suffered, he would suffer even worse?

These are the issues I am talking about -- for a supposedly powerful law firm, they are becoming a joke. Whether it smacks of bad writing or not, that is the question -- and I'm leaning towards "yes."

And realistically, given the way W&S was ORIGINALLY presented, Angel the upstart vampire would have been, should have been, killed long ago.

Take it and run.

[> [> [> Linwood -- neaux, 04:47:30 04/16/02 Tue

Linwood was in a tuxedo.
So he was more likely out on the town at a function of some sort when Angel grabbed him and roughed him up.
Therefore Linwood was not in W&H at the time of his abduction.

[> [> [> They don't want to kill Angel -- aurelia, 05:22:56 04/16/02 Tue

W&H have a policy about not killing Angel, they need him alive because he has 'a role to play' (vague enough) in the big apocalypse they have planed.

I don't remember if they gave an explanation for how he got into the building in Dad, but every other time they mention how Gavin let him or Lilah did or something like that.

[> [> [> [> Re: Another 2 cents -- Valhalla, 19:20:58 04/16/02 Tue

My beef about W&H is that they are becoming too comic book. They keep screwing up time after time. Lilah's always having to explain why her operations failed, or why she doesn't know who's who or what's going on. Sure, I'd hate to see them succeed, but since it's emphasized again and again that the penalty for messing up at such an black arts kind of place is death - why is Lilah still alive? Or at least, so not-injured?

The other problem is overexposure. When Angel started, I thought the whole lawyers-literally- defending-evil thing was funny, if a little obvious. ME's metaphors are sometimes obvious, but they don't usually hang on so tenaciously to the obvious ones.

I really cheered the introduction of Holtz and Sajhan (sp?) -- finally, different enemies! But then they got all wrapped up in the W&H storylines anyway.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: Another 2 cents -- JustAsking, 09:38:12 04/17/02 Wed

My beef about W&H is that they are becoming too comic book. They keep screwing up time after time.

And yet, they have some sort of TechSpeak Monitor that registered Sahjhan's appearance. They can pull off fancy stuff like the White Room (and evidently "control" the girl and her power/wisdom) and summon commando squadrons. They had their hand in the subjugation of Pylea (remember the books?) and who knows how many other dimensions. Yet "those meddling kids" - Scoobs indeed - foil them constantly. You'd think they'd just nuke AI from space... Whatever plans they have for Angel in the apocalypse must be pretty darn special.

[> [> Boreanaz is growing up, as an actor (spoilers for AtS) -- Solitude1056, 07:37:19 04/16/02 Tue

There have been times when DB cried in BtVS, and it just never seemed to affect me. But last night's little bit, when he stopped Fred from calling Cordy, really did affect me. On a lower key, it was similar to when Anya responded in The Body - a character who'd shown emotion before but this time allowed a certain true vulnerability through. I'm wondering if this is, in part, due to the real-life soon-to-be-born baby that DB & his wife are expecting, and if DB groks the potential losses of fatherhood much more deeply than he ever did before. Regardless, it finally showed that DB's got some acting chops more than just brooding or being goofy. It'll be one of my favorite little snippets of DB for some time to come, I think.

[> [> [> I agree that was his best moment of the show....:):):) -- Rufus, 00:44:31 04/17/02 Wed


[> Re: Wolfram and Hart -- incompetent? -- Malandanza, 11:31:18 04/16/02 Tue

"I am getting royally sick and tired of the new, incompetent Wolfram and Hart."

Is W&H incompetent? I think it depends on what you think their goals are. They've shown that they don't want to kill Angel. I don't even think the evil the firm does is an end in itself. I think W&H is all about corruption. The evil that they have their underling do is for the purpose of corrupting the underlings.

Likewise, they want Angel alive, but corrupt. They have taken significant steps towards his corruption.

1. Angel kidnapped and threatened Linwood with torture.
2. Angel made a deal with a scary underworld creature (who likes evil, but not chaos) and was willing to kill Lilah at its command.
3. Angel unleashed a demon through the use of some very dark magic.
4. He tried to kill Wesley.

Everything seems to be progressing nicely. Are Linwood, Lilah and Gavin incompetent? Probably. They are being kept in the dark about the true goals of the firm. They probably won't like Angel if the firm succeeds in corrupting him -- Linwood got a taste of what Lilah and Lindsey got during Angel's noir period (although Lindsey and Lilah behaved better under stress -- Linwood was pathetic -- reminded me of Wesley's performance on his first trip to Sunnydale).

So I'd say not incompetent, but more subtle than you give them credit for being.

[> Not at all sympathetic?! -- AngelVSAngelus, 12:19:48 04/16/02 Tue

Wow. Well, to each their own, I guess. I, too, don't morally condone Angel's current behavior, but I certainly sympathize with the situation that motivates it. I can definitely say I believe his actions wrong, but I cannot definitely say that put into the same situation my behavior would be different. I just hope that it would be.
That is something that I enjoyed about the episode, apparently contrary to everyone else here, the fact that it presented an uncompromising situation. The episode is difficult because of the fact that there isn't a side or character involved in it that is devoid of sympathy. Many are wrong, and while being able to say that, you do still feel genuine empathy for the child-less father, the one who thought he was saving the child from that father, the woman who aided in the son's disappearance because she trusted the wrong man, and all in between.
Its interesting that the writers have been able to give us an Angel who is not consumed with brooding guilt, but not because of any true happiness that would rob him of his soul, full of human rage, AND utilizing Angelus' obssessive deliberation.

[> [> Given the things Angel has done, willingly? No, not at all sympathetic. -- Earl Allison, 14:39:14 04/16/02 Tue

I'd be more likely to sympathize if this weren't the same man who cut loose his moral anchors, fed at least a dozen lawyers to Darla and Drusilla, and came very close to snapping Lilah's neck last night.

As I stated in the "And of all people, Angel should be BRIMMING with forgiveness" reply a few threads down, Angel of all people knows how low someone can go, and the true depths of evil he traversed as Angelus, and even flirted with this season and last WITH a soul.

And his actions weren't even mitigated by the ATTEMPT to do something right, as Wesley's were. No, Angel slept with Darla ... because he did. He fed those lawyers to Drusilla and Darla ... because he did. He would have killed Lilah, not to make the world a better place, but for a shot at revenge. There wasn't any honorable or redeeming factors, and yet he sought absolution and forgiveness from his friends -- of which Wesley was one.

How soon he forgets.

And frankly, this isn't excusable on any level -- he had time to cool off, Wesley was CLEARLY no threat, a vastly different take, IMHO, than the actions he visited on others.

I sympathize with him as a parent, but even that is a very tenuous thread, frayed near to breaking.

Take it and run.


Can Angel do the Apocalypse justice? -- Simpleton, 03:05:00 04/16/02 Tue

I didn't despise Doomed when it aired, but in retrospect I realize what a silly episode it was -- the apocalypse coming and going in half an hour, with no particular motivation and no lasting consequences (Spike would have learned he could fight demons eventually)? Yawn-ola!
Now I'm wondering if Angel can deliver an Apocalypse that actually deserves to be capitalized.
Consider: Season 1: The Mohra demon says the end of days are coming. Angel tells Doyle he can sense the darkness coming and they discuss the apocalypse in "Hero." The Shanshu prophecy (not that those can be trusted) says Angel will
fulfill his destiny after defeating the coming darkness and apocalyptic battles (plural).
Season 2: Many references to Angel's role in the apocalypse and W&H's plans for what side he'll be on. Holland tells Angel, "the apocalypse.... Another one of those.... We do have one scheduled.... All those people you save from that
apocalypse would then have the next one to look forward to."
Season 3: Sahjahn chants the Cod-she prophecy that "One shall awaken in the first year of the final century." The Nyazian Scrolls describe the Tro-clan as the ruination/purification of mankind.

So with all of this, which the hell is it? Hundreds of little baby apocalypses or one big for-real Apocalypse?
I for one am tired of the little baby ones. In the grand scheme of things, The Master, The Mayor, and the whatever-the-hecks from "Doomed," three of the six that Buffy says they've stopped, are pretty much lightweights (not that I didn't enjoy those arcs immensely). Acathla sucking the world into hell and Glory destroying the walls between dimensions definitely rank as capital-A apocalypses.

Now with all the clues given in Seasons 1-3, I hope Angel is building toward a giant, great big grandaddy of all apocalypses and steers completely clear of little baby ones. I want to fear for the AI gang's safety. I want to see sets of L.A. in ruins. I want a feeling of mayhem and danger and desperation that I've never gotten from Buffy (with the exception of the final scenes of TWoTW). I want revelations about the true nature of W&H. Holland says they don't care about winning because the firm always goes on. Can that be all there is to them -- just evil for evil's sake?

What I'd really love is something along the lines of: all throughout season four we start to get more hints and clearer picture of what the coming darkness means and how it will happen. Starting slowly at first then gradually building momentum through the course of the season. Then the actual event or battle, whatever it turns out to be, takes place over the entire span of seasons five and six. I can't even guess at the kinds of twists and turns the story could take over such a long time. (Irrelevent aside: Those who watched DS9 know that the Dominion war took one year of hints and foreshadowing, two years of shifting alliances, political maneuvering, and mounting tensions, and finally two years of the actual battles. Yet at the same time not every episode revolved around the war -- just like now when most Americans go about life as usual while the War on You-Know-What kind of just happens in the background.)
Anyway, after all this, season seven could have the aftermath and recovery. Or maybe the might do something along the lines of Primeval and Restless -- have the struggle over in S5, the aftermath and recovery in S6, and S7 could be something completely unrelated and unpredictable, yet amazing in it's own right.
Of course, they would still manage to weave in the usual dozen plotlines each season, so you wouldn't have to worry about it becoming Apocalypse: the Series. ;-)

Anybody with me, or am I out of my mind? Well, there's a reason Joss and Greenie have their own show and I don't....
All I know for certain is that they always manage to surprise the heck out of me.


I apologize for rambling so much, but hey, it's 4:30 a.m. What else should I be thinking about? :- )

Another random thought: When Sahjahn raises Holtz, he says that "all men born must die," and whaddayaknow -- Connor is never born. Maybe he's not such a normal human after all.

[> Re: Can Angel do the Apocalypse justice? -- Robert, 12:35:27 04/16/02 Tue

>> "Connor is never born."

only in the sense that babies delivered by cesarian section are not born.


The Price of Revenge......spoilers for Forgiveness -- Rufus, 03:48:22 04/16/02 Tue

Angel roughed Linwood up to find a way to get his son back. Linwood had an answer but is it one Angel should utilize? Angel made his way to W&H where he and Lilah went to the White Room, a place that the last person to enter ended up in an asylum.
The White Room is just that, white, bright, containing a little girl who looks innocent pure. Innocence, purity, in a white room, surely she has the answer.

Girl: Hello....Angel....Lilah....(to Lilah) Your fingernails are pretty, I love red...(to Angel) You have a taste for red too - and revenge - I know, so much more fun than forgiveness...........So, what's up?

Angel: Demon named Sahjan has taken my son.

Girl: Awww.....do you want your little baby back? (Angel moves forward not pleased)
Baby's gone - you want Sahjan....now a days you can walk right through em, but in the past.....They were something else. They were all about death and torture (to Angel) You can relate. Well, they caused a lot of trouble - don't get me wrong - I like trouble - but I hate chaos. So we changed em.


Angel: You made them immaterial.

Girl: Smart Boy.......now they watch and they can no longer touch.

Angel: How do I capture them?

Girl: Well, there's a special urn...they're expensive and hard to come by...But you don't want his essence in a jar - you want someone you can sink your teeth into (Angel looks at Lilah).
You know, these things always come with a price.....Kill her (Angel moves to break Lilah's neck)

Girl: (giggles) That's good enough for now. I can see why they respect you. Now, as to your demon- made-flesh.......It's a long ritual.....All here (sends directions through air to Angel) Can't wait to see how it turns out.


Is that the way to bring Connor back, darkest magic? And the idea that Angel was so ready to finish off Lilah to get what he wanted. Was it the influence of a room that has turned mortal men insane? Or is another insanity at work here. The Girl had it right...revenge it is more fun than forgiveness.....it's easier, less work. Angel is all about the revenge, less about what is right. Is he insane with grief? Has he made a deal that something will want to collect on? I think Lorne had the right idea when he said.....

Lorne: Angel, you're messing with Primordial Powers of darkness here.

Angel wasn't listening. He was doing a spell that took painting a pentagram and human blood with the words........"Corpus Granok Sahjan Demonicus"........

Sahjan became material and said "Now that's more like it". Angel brought back a demon that he had no idea the power of. I had a few questions. The Girl in the White Room described Sahjan as a "they", so where are the others like him? Did Angel just bring back the one, or the they? And next question, when are the powers from the White Room going to come to collect, and what will they want? Angel may wish he had opted for the more difficult but ultimately rewarding, forgiveness.

[> Re: The Price of Revenge......spoilers for Forgiveness -- skpe, 07:21:27 04/16/02 Tue

Interesting post with a lot of questions that I would like to add one more to. What is the
Little girl? We have already seen that the PTB’s run the hells, (i.e., Skip) as well as the heavens.
Is she a demon or avenging angel? . And if the latter what is she doing at W&H? Maybe
W&H is a punishment hell for lawyers and that she is in charge of their torment like Skip was
In his. Because the you will have to admit that the people at W&H always seam to wind up on
The pointy end of the stake. Just a thought.

[> [> Re: The Price of Revenge......spoilers for Forgiveness -- Rufus, 13:05:13 04/16/02 Tue

I feel the little girl was just a form, the power behind the form ageless. I found is a cute trick to make her look so innocent and helpless, but full of evil. The white room reminded me of the Oracles. I guess that if you go into a white room (I think white has symbolized purity)don't expect the PTB's you may get their darker cousins....;)

[> Re: The Price of Revenge......spoilers for Forgiveness -- Cactus Watcher, 07:23:42 04/16/02 Tue

It seems to me that feeding Angel's desire for revenge is what the "White Room" wants. In a sense, his 'debt' was paid, simply by coming to them, and allowing them to steer his actions. Was it Angel's mistake or something W & H did not tell him that caused Sahjan to apear elsewhere?

I generally disliked the episode. It failed to make sense on many levels, and I found it a bit too chaotic for my tastes. (I hope that does mean I'm inadvertantly working for W & H!)

Two things did strike me about the episode. "Red's" actions were clearly chaotic in the sense W & H don't like. Is she going to become a major player? And second, while I felt that if Angel had forgiven Wesley at the end of the ep, the show would have lost all credibility, like others I was a little surprised at the form of the attack. After thinking about it a while, I decided that what happened was not something either Angelus or Angel would do. But, it is exactly how the young and frustrated Liam might react. Perhaps Angel is already becoming more human without realizing it.

[> [> Speaking of Chaos: I did mean to say 'NOT working for W & H' in my aside. :oP -- CW, 07:26:58 04/16/02 Tue


[> Contra Wesley (spoilers for Forgiveness) -- Sophist, 09:48:49 04/16/02 Tue

Forgiveness has caused me to question whether AtS can or should continue. There are 2 major problems with the storyline.

The biggest problem, and to me the most irritating, was the attitude toward Wesley expressed by Lorne, Charles, and Fred. Each of them, at various times, said that Wesley had acted courageously within the limits of his knowledge. They all recommended that Angel forgive Wes because Wes had tried to do the right thing. The problem is, Wesley was wrong. He was wrong every which way imaginable:

1. His failure to consult with the others about the prophecy showed a complete lack of respect for them. AI is a group endeavor. Even if Wes is the nominal "boss" (a dubious point), he doesn't get to make major decisions on his own. The failure to consult Cordelia is particularly inexcusable, but he should have been talking to the others as well (not necessarily Angel). Keeping it to himself was arrogant, not courageous. Acting on his own was foolish, not "the best he could do with the knowledge he had".

2. He acted hastily. Putting aside the trickiness of prophecies (which Wes should realize), and putting aside the fact that this prophecy was forged, there was no time limit on it. For all Wes knew, Angel might have euthanized Connor when Connor was 86 and dying of bone cancer. There was no need to rush.

3. He had no way to know whether Holtz had any intention of keeping his part of the bargain.

4. Raising Connor to adulthood would take 18 years (on Earth anyway). Wes had no way to know that Holtz would keep his promises over that time period. Nor did he have any assurance of Connor's safety otherwise during that long time.

By having the other characters praise Wesley's actions, the writers not only send the wrong message. They also run the risk of creating on AtS the same problem that now exists on Buffy, namely that Xander consistently says and does the wrong thing while receiving reinforcement for this misconduct from other characters. They have now reached the point where only a truly enormous penalty can preserve credibility.

My other big concern has to do with the willingness of the writers to take dramatic/thematic risks. Wesley should be dead. Several posters have commented on the implausibility of his survival from having his throat slit and lying there untended for what appeared to be several hours, and the equally implausible smothering attempt. His survival seems cheap. His death would have made a true Greek tragedy. That's the difference between soap opera and drama.

[> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS -- Robert, 10:03:09 04/16/02 Tue

>> "Forgiveness has caused me to question whether AtS can or should continue. There are 2 major problems with the storyline."

>> "They also run the risk of creating on AtS the same problem that now exists on Buffy, ..."

Have you written off Angel & BtVS before knowing the end of the story? If both shows ended tomorrow, would you be satisfied? What shows would you rather watch in preference?

[> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS -- CW, 10:24:17 04/16/02 Tue

I have to agree with some of Sophist's points. While I was watching Forgiveness, I was thinking 'this story isn't as well-thought-out as it is manipulative.' And I was thinking TV-off might be a good option. But, the ending at least gives me hope that ME will try to make something of what could easily slip off into brainless-action mediocrity.

As for having to know the whole story, someone once said, you don't have to drink the whole carton of milk to know it's going bad. One thing I've tried repeatedly to say in my posts is that it is ME's responsibility to provide us with the shows we want to watch, not ours to rejoice in whatever they give us. We can be happy with what they've given us generally. But we should never let anyone in the TV business forget, there are other ways to spend our time.

[> [> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS -- Robert, 11:18:04 04/16/02 Tue

>> "But we should never let anyone in the TV business forget, there are other ways to spend our time."

There are always other (and better) ways to spend our time. But are there better TV shows?

>> "As for having to know the whole story, someone once said, you don't have to drink the whole carton of milk to know it's going bad."

This is a very nice aphorism, which is completely inapplicable to the situation under discussion. The contents of a carton of milk are a homogenous, isotropic medium. Therefore, a random sampling will provide an accurate representation of the entirety.

The story telling in a novel or serial television show (such as Angel or BtVS) is neither homogenous nor isotropic. You cannot pick up a new novel, read one chapter somewhere in the middle, and accurately predict what has come before or the story at its conclusion. You might be able to predict the author's writing style, but even that is problematic.

Does how you feel about "Forgiving" accurately represent all the other episodes of BtVS and Angel? Do you believe that "Forgiving" accurately predicts what will happen in the remaining episodes and how the story will conclude?

>> "But, the ending at least gives me hope that ME will try to make something of what could easily slip off into brainless-action mediocrity."

I found "Forgiving" to be a very difficult episode and I will likely never watch it a second time. If it were the only episode I had ever viewed, I might not have watched any others. However, I can see how it is a necessary piece of the whole story and I would not consider abandoning the show at this point. I also would not predict that Mutant Enemy has fallen into brainless-action mediocrity on the basis on one episode three-quarters into an extended story arc.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS -- CW, 12:05:17 04/16/02 Tue

Your point about serial TV would be well taken if it were generally true. In fact, in general, plot lines and love affairs change on TV not according to an over all plan, but according to the ratings.

I watch Buffy and Angel for precisely the same reason, I used to watch Babylon Five, because even the bad episodes are worth watching more than once, because they fit into a structural whole. You can, indeed, read a mediocre novel from the middle. It makes no difference at what point you start a common romance novel, an ordinary western movie, or a sitcom episode, because almost nothing depends on what has happened before. When a novel stops making sense in the middle, loses it structural integrity in the middle, I stop reading.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: "Forgiving" -- Robert, 12:26:37 04/16/02 Tue

>> "because even the bad episodes are worth watching more than once,"

I do not consider "Forgiving" to be a bad episode. Rather, I find it a harsh unpleasant episode, but a necessary one. I do not believe that every episode must be watchable more than once in order for the series to be good. In the case of "Forgiving", I am currently not willing to feel the pain which it invokes within me again. Maybe later I will feel differently. Regardless, I suspect that this episode will be pivotal for the season arc.

>> " You can, indeed, read a mediocre novel from the middle."

True! Since I was using the example of a novel as metaphor for BtVS and Angel, I meant a good novel, not a mediocre novel. I'm afraid that I've never read romance novels, so I don't know how they are structured. I've heard that they are stamped out on an assembly line.

>> "... or a sitcom episode ..."

Most TV shows (and sitcoms in particular) have no extended arc. Many shows are specifically designed such that there is no discernable order. This lowers the barrier to attracting new viewers after the show has been running awhile. Mr. Whedon has previously stated that he caters to the loyal viewers and not to ephemeral ratings.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> romance structure -- skeeve, 14:10:34 04/16/02 Tue

Try A stitch in Snow by Anne McCaffrey.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: romance structure -- Robert, 14:19:57 04/16/02 Tue

>> "Try A stitch in Snow by Anne McCaffrey."

Oh, silly me. I actually read most of that one. About 20 years ago I attempted to read everything McCaffrey wrote. Since McCaffrey is usually considered a science fiction/fantasy writer, I assumed this also was SF or fantasy. I even bought the book from a SF bookstore. I don't remember anything about it now, except that I detested it.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: romance structure -- Arethusa, 14:25:03 04/16/02 Tue

Did you read McCaffrey's "Restoree"? She said in an interview that that book was a romance novel disguised as a science fiction novel. Also-anything by Elizabeth Peters. Hers would put many "literary" books to shame.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: romance structure -- Robert, 14:46:29 04/16/02 Tue

>> "Did you read McCaffrey's "Restoree"?"

Yes and I actually liked that one somewhat.

>> "... anything by Elizabeth Peters."

No. For pleasure reading, I've been sticking to science fiction that past few years. My non-pleasure reading currently includes quantum mechanics and electrodynamics, and its only going to get worse!

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: romance structure -- skeeve, 08:39:26 04/17/02 Wed

I remember AM saying that Restoree was a joke based on reversing the then-current male-female roles in SF. Having read it considerably after it was current, I didn't get the joke. I'm told not many people got it even when it was current.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Romance of the Rose like thing -- fresne, 16:07:07 04/16/02 Tue

One description of romance novels coming up.

Rich experienced, but emotionally stunted boy meets spunky inexperienced poor girl. Boy is attracted to girl. Girl sees a problem with the relationship based on boy's: lack of morals, social status, wealth, he acts like a jerk, etc. And I want to emphasize, generally, the boy has all the cards. He's wealthy, powerful, socially well placed, etc. Although, sometimes it may be that he's got money, she's got social standing.

However, boy is a babe. Well actually, it plays one of two ways. He looks like a fallen angel or is not actually attractive at all. Only the heroine sees his attractiveness. Everyone else thinks he's ugly/a beast. This can also work for the girl. She's too tall, plump, thin, plain, wears glasses etc. Only the boy sees that this girl is one makeover away from being an utter babe.

As the girl and boy overcome the plot's obstacles to fall in love, they both gain something from the other person (other than being in love itself). The boy learns how to access his softer emotions and open up to another human being. The girl often gets a resolution to the societal problems which have bugged her (annoying father, poverty, freedom to study paleontology, etc).

Of course, not all romances are the same. Modern romances vary a great deal from period pieces. However, since all romances are descended in some way from Jane Austen (Pride and Prejudice, etc) and Jane Eyre, there are recurring ideas.

The central tenant of most romances is this: the emotion is the thing. Plots may repeat. However, the emotional connection the reader gets to how these two people connect is what a good romance novel is all about.

fresne - who reads quite a few romances. And not all of them from the 1200s. And...I really liked last night's episode too.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Romance of the Rose like thing -- LadyStarlight, 11:07:51 04/17/02 Wed

My own personal explanation for romance novels (both writers and readers):

Where else can you find a man who will voluntarily pick up after himself, cook a meal, change a baby?

Just my own opinion, based on field observations.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Will two out of three do? -- skeeve, 08:00:29 04/18/02 Thu


[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Which two is the ultimate question, I guess. -- LadyStarlight, 12:11:56 04/18/02 Thu


[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> The more you post -- Vickie, 14:29:04 04/17/02 Wed

The more I appreciate my husband.;-)

Thanks for the giggle.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> LOL.......:):) -- Rufus, 16:15:49 04/17/02 Wed


[> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS (spoiler for Hells Bells) -- Sophist, 10:55:57 04/16/02 Tue

I have different attitudes about the 2 shows. I love Buffy. I watch Angel (usually). I don't watch any other TV shows, so if neither were on, I'd do what I did for the 15 years before WTTH: watch nothing.

You're absolutely right about the need for patience. I have argued that many times here in justification of S6, which I love except for (a) the magic=drugs nonsense, and (b)AYW, which Anne rightly described in her Psyche/Eros post as loathesome. In both cases, I'm expecting the story to play out in a way that will satisfy my concerns.

I take this attitude with Buffy because past and current brilliance justify me. Angel has never reached that level (to me), so it doesn't get as much benefit of the doubt.

Additionally, Xander's misconduct has generally been a sidelight to the main issues on the show. That makes it easier to ignore than Wesley's, which was the center of the plot over 4 (I think) episodes so far and several more obviously to come. I will say that if all the characters told Xander he was perfectly justified in walking away from the wedding, with no serious consequence to him, I would have real problems with BtVS even with my willingness to forgive.

[> [> [> [> Re: Disregard of the viewers and their morality (oblique future spoiler) -- Dochawk, 11:15:01 04/16/02 Tue

Soph, if you are spoiled come to the trollup board. There is discussion of this very issue in regards to BTVS, but it involves future spoilers.

Just want to add that I totally agree with your position. That ME has to respect the viewers as well and if you change characters, let them be dismissive, the writer fails his audience (this is not the same as listening to fans because they want their Spuffy).

[> [> [> [> [> Re: Disregard of the viewers and their morality (oblique future spoiler) -- Robert, 11:33:03 04/16/02 Tue

>> "That ME has to respect the viewers as well and if you change characters, let them be dismissive, the writer fails his audience ..."

Where has this happened?

[> [> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS (spoiler for Hells Bells) -- Robert, 11:31:39 04/16/02 Tue

>> " I love Buffy."

This does not seem to track with what you wrote in your previous message, which seemed to imply that BtVS should cease to continue. I do agree with you in that I very much prefer BtVS to Angel. After BtVS and Angel, there is nothing else on TV anywhere close in quality.

>> "... Xander's misconduct has generally been a sidelight to the main issues on the show."

Xander's misconduct is a very important part of the show in that all the main characters are disfunctional this season. All the characters have done things for which they are ashamed. Buffy and the others did not excuse Xander for his behavior. They may understand why he did it. They may decide that they can still be friends with Xander in spite of his defects. They may decide to forgive him for his actions and help him overcome the problems that lead to these actions.

[> [> [> [> [> We're not disagreeing here -- Sophist, 12:31:34 04/16/02 Tue

My comments about not continuing were made about AtS, not Buffy.

I agree, they have not excused Xander. That was the point of my contrast to how Wesley was "justified". I don't know yet how the Xander story will play out; I'm reserving judgment until it does. The mills of God can grind slowly, but grind they must.

[> [> [> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS (spoiler for Hells Bells), Xander and his lack of payment -- Dochawk, 15:02:12 04/16/02 Tue

Has Xander paid for his behavior? I can mention many things he has done over the years, but this season in OMWF, he conjures a demon who burns people. Even when he finds this out he doesn't tell Giles, who might be able to do something about it, he willingly lets Buffy go to fight the demon without this important information. I can't remember a time when an innocent human died because of Scooby member (the deaths at graduation day are not ascribed to the SG) bedsides this action. Yet, he doesn't display the slightest bit of guilt about it, let alone having paid for it. of all the SG, Xander frequently gets off scott free.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: continuation of Angel & BtVS (spoiler for Hells Bells), Xander and his lack of payment -- Malandanza, 15:39:30 04/16/02 Tue

"I can't remember a time when an innocent human died because of Scooby member (the deaths at graduation day are not ascribed to the SG) bedsides this action."

VampWillow was accidentally summoned by Willow -- she killed people.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> I think it's fairer to say VampWillow was summoned by Anya. -- Sophist, 16:19:25 04/16/02 Tue

Though Willow certainly did participate willingly in the spell, she did so under false pretences. When she realized that something wasn't right, she interfered with the spell in a way that caused VampWillow to come rather than Anyanka's power center.

Your larger point about other SG members causing death remains valid, since Anya is responsible for Sandy's death.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: I think it's fairer to say VampWillow was summoned by Anya. -- Malandanza, 23:40:09 04/17/02 Wed

"Though Willow certainly did participate willingly in the spell, she did so under false pretenses. When she realized that something wasn't right, she interfered with the spell in a way that caused VampWillow to come rather than Anyanka's power center.

"Your larger point about other SG members causing death remains valid, since Anya is responsible for Sandy's death."


Anya wasn't part of the gang back when Dopplegangland happened -- so to say a Scooby was responsible for a death because Anya was responsible is, I think, a bit of an overstatement.

Willow didn't interfere with the spell intentionally -- she got scared, panicked and ruined the spell. She had entered into the spell hoping for something dangerous and she got her wish -- by contrast, Xander used the talisman hoping for good.

But whether or not we blame Willow (at least in part) for Sandy's death (and all those people Sandy may have killed), we do know that Willow has come dangerously close to killing both her friends and strangers on more than one occasion -- the difference is that Buffy typically manages to bail Willow out before anyone dies.

Something Blue, Triangle and Tabula Rasa are all excellent examples of Willow spells that nearly get her friends killed. Furthermore, in Triangle we don't know whether Olaf actually killed anyone -- he was on a rampage through town. In the Bronze there were several badly wounded victims (remember Spike helping them?) -- is hospitalizing innocent bystanders okay?

How about Willow's stupidity in facing off against Glory? Buffy had been doing a good job at keeping Dawn hidden -- until Willow led Glory straight to the key. Time had been running out for Glory -- Buffy may have been able to keep Dawn a secret had it not been for Willow. So maybe we can blame Dawn's abduction and Buffy's death on our favorite redheaded witch.

I don't understand how the Xander haters can give Willow a free pass -- the difference seems to be that Willow is lucky. If you want to charge Xander with negligent homicide, Willow should be up for a few counts of reckless endangerment at the very least.

(Also, Oz killed Veruca)

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: I think it's fairer to say VampWillow was summoned by Anya. -- shadowkat, 06:49:57 04/19/02 Fri

Actually - all of the Scoobies have been directly or
indirectly responsible for deaths.

1. Giles : killed Ben - yes, I know there was justification but the point was made by more than one character in the episode that they shouldn't kill Ben just because he housed Glory. Also Giles was indirectly responsible for the deaths caused by Eyghon in the Dark Man episode. (He admitted
as much.)

2. Buffy - she took responsibility for Angel's killing of
Jenny and the death of Kendra - because she didn't kill
Angel (Never personally agreed with her for this, but
oh well. Giles certainly didn't blame her.) She also tried
to kill Faith (which admittedly was justified). Actually
of the gang - I think we can say that she really hasn't killed any humans directly or indirectly as far as I can
remember. And it's not really fair to count people she couldn't save. Poor girl, get a calling, and no one is satisfied. Is she responsible for her friends actions? Uh,
no. I have troubles giving her responsibility for Xander
and Willow's or Gile's actions.

3. You do an excellent job of chronicaling Willow's misdeeds
and I completely agree. Willow has not really paid for the consequences of her magic - which is something I think Giles is partly responsible for. If anything he's encouraged her. This could lead to his undoing and everyone
else's for that matter. In watching past episodes - I find it amazing he allowed her to do some of the stuff he did.
Such as that curse spell? The Primeval spell? He had to know the dangers - from his own experience. Buffy - I don't hold responsible for that. Buffy knows little about magic
and certainly isn't old enough to know the consequences.

4. Xander - actually most of his misdeeds were out of stupidity and insecurity. Also see Giles as being culpable.
He let these two kids into his duties as Watcher, gave them access to dangerous knowledge and did very little to supervise it. When Xander conducted that spell with Amy in Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered - Giles came down on him.
But he should have made sure everyone concerned understood
the consequences. He even takes Xander under his wing, giving him even more access to his books. I'm not surprised Xander accidently conjured Sweet anymore than
Willow did Olaf. Giles seems to give them free run of both his store and his library book collection. Those dangerous books are upstairs not locked up. Dawn was able to get the Forever spell with no difficulty. Willow got a hold of Darkest magic with no problem.

Yep - Giles has fallen down on the job. As much as I adore
the character - I think his reluctance to be a disciplinarian and truly guide his charges may have led
a couple of them to misdeeds. It's not Buffy who should have
come down on them, it's Giles. But for some reason he wants
Buffy to. Buffy - who has enough on her shoulders being
the slayer.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> This thread is way too long already, -- Sophist, 08:48:56 04/19/02 Fri

mostly due to my own posts. This is an interesting topic, but we need to start anew.

Just a few quick points.

1. Buffy has killed humans -- the Knights of Byzantium at least. That said, I believe nearly all of Buffy's actions have been justified. In the cases where she was wrong, there has usually been a severe price which she recognizes.

2. Willow has certainly done some foolish things. However, my quick impression is that (a) most did not lead to serious or permanent harm, (b) she has suffered some consequence, and (c) she has done a lot of very important good deeds.

3. Xander's misdeeds go back all the way to S2. My biggest problem is that he has gotten away with misconduct while others haven't. Why he is the teflon man, I don't know. In addition, Xander's good deeds have grown fewer and farther between since S1.

If we ever do get into this topic, let me suggest that we consider the following: 1. The wrongdoing. 2. Whether there were any consequences suffered. 3. What good deeds might have balanced out the wrong.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: This thread is way too long already, -- mundusmundi, 18:59:58 04/19/02 Fri

Xander's misdeeds go back all the way to S2. My biggest problem is that he has gotten away with misconduct while others haven't. Why he is the teflon man, I don't know. In addition, Xander's good deeds have grown fewer and farther between since S1.

Ouch! We obviously see the character differently. I'd argue that if anything Xander has improved in recent years, with numerous good deeds and fewer bad ones. (His summoning Sweet in OMWF a notable exception, but that was such a bogus plot device I've convinced myself it didn't happen). Also, I don't see teflon on a character who's been consistently unhappy for much of the series. Some may not need chastisement if they're already punishing themselves (except for summoning homicidal dancing demons, right!).

Bye bye thread, I suspect soon; it was fun while it lasted.

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> There are threads that are too long? Other than "Right Wing Objections"? -- d'Herblay, 20:22:00 04/19/02 Fri

mundus parenthesizes:
(His summoning Sweet in OMWF a notable exception, but that was such a bogus plot device I've convinced myself it didn't happen).
I did that with much of the seventh season of Homicide!

Xander is such a salt-of-the-earth stand-up type guy that I can imagine that he was not responsible at all for summoning Sweet. In fact, surely someone like Xander would be willing to take the fall for a friend. Obviously, he was covering for someone. I think that it's plainly evident where the blame lies: Giles. Giles had motive: the Espresso Pump hasn't asked him to play another gig since "Where the Wild Things Are." Giles had opportunity: he owns the Magic Box! He even confessed; hell, he sang like a canary!

I've got a theory
That it's a demon
A dancing demon!
No, something isn't right there.

All this time we've been interpreting "No, something isn't right there" as an expression of doubt, when in reality it's an admission of moral culpability! And what does he do the first chance he gets? He skips town! Looks pretty guilty to me! Quod erat demonstrandum.

Or maybe it was Tara . . .

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> By Jove, I think you've got it! -- mm, 07:33:07 04/20/02 Sat

Hopefully, like whatshisface in Crime and Punishment (showing my literary bonafides, aren't I?), Giles will return to the scene of the crime.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Completely agree Doc -- Sophist, 16:22:00 04/16/02 Tue

But I'm in enough trouble here for my comments about Wesley, so I'll have to save Xander for later.

[> [> Re: Contra Wesley (spoilers for Forgiveness) -- matching mole, 10:39:11 04/16/02 Tue

'Forgiveness' seemed rushed to me - a lot of things were going on and not enough time was spent on them to allow the viewer to really assess things like the subtleties of character motivation. I was also bothered by Gunn, Fred, and Lorne who didn't really seem to have reactions of their own to the events but rather mostly just reacted to Angel's reactions. Maybe they just shifted into problem solving mode and left their own feelings about events for later.

I agree with Sophist that Wesley's actions could hardly be considered praiseworthy. But they were foolish, self-defeating, and perhaps a bit arrogant rather than malevolent or even selfish. I could interpret Fred's (in particular) reaction to the discovery of Wesley's motivations as one of relief that Wesley's actions were not motivated by hatred or jealousy. But the writers didn't give Fred and Gunn (and Lorne) enough dialog to allow us (or me at least) to really judge their reactions. Maybe when the characters have time to think more about it their feelings about Wesley will be expressed more fully. I guess we'll have to wait and find out.

It seems clear that no major blood vessels could have been cut when Wesley's throat was slit or he would have died in the park (and there would have been a lot more blood). I don't have enough medical knowledge to assess the likelihood of his surviving with tracheal damage.

The hospital scene seemed weird to me and the only explanation I can think of is that Angel was deeply conflicted, torn between rage and the need for control and empathy. The control/empathy part was dominant until he actually saw Wesley. Then rage took over but subconsciously was restrained making Angel's attack ineffectual. Otherwise his reactions at the end of the show make no sense - why didn't he attack Justine who is far more directly responsible for the loss of Connor than Wesley? She confessed to attacking Wesley and taking the baby right in front of Angel. And the pillow attack just seemed silly. As did Angel getting pulled away by only a couple of orderlies.

Narrative and symbolism aside this episode made me realize how much of my enjoyment of AtS is based on Wesley and Cordelia. It seems to me that Wesley's guilt and struggle for redemption offers a more interesting storyline than simply bumping him off.

[> [> Re: forgiving Wesley -- Robert, 10:43:10 04/16/02 Tue

>> "Each of them, at various times, said that Wesley had acted courageously within the limits of his knowledge. They all recommended that Angel forgive Wes ..."

I agree with every point you made about the wrongness of Wesley's response to the prophecy. However, I completely disagree with your conclusion. Besides which, Wesley can be courageous and wrong at the same time. Even given that Wesley is wrong, it is right for Lorn, Gunn and Fred to ask Angel to forgive Wesley. The episode even provided the reason that forgiveness is necessary. Without it, innocent people will suffer pain, ruination and death. The gang is attempting to defuse a very dangerous situation, and it is continuously getting worse with the;

a. kidnapping and torture of lawyers from Wolfram and Hart,

b. substantiation of Sahjan,

c. injury and death of innocent bystander due to Sahjan's substantiation,

d. battle with Sahjan, and

e. attempted murder of Wesley.

If Angel (not Angelus) cold bloodedly murders Wesley (especially while Wesley is helpless to even plead his case), then Angel will have taken a giant step over the line. Remember that Wolfram and Hart have as one of their primary goals to convert Angel to their side, otherwise they would have dusted him last season. Angel must cool off and find accommodation with the situation. He may never get his son back, but he will not come out of a murder unscathed.

>> "By having the other characters praise Wesley's actions, the writers not only send the wrong message."

The writers on Angel are more subtle than that about what messages they want to convey.

The gang may be praising Wesley with their words, but their demeanor conveys a different message. The praises given by Lorn, Gunn and Fred to Angel may not be wholly appropriate, but they are understandable given the volatility of the situation. Lorn was not praising Wesley to Gunn and Fred outside of Angel's hearing, though they understood the strain Wesley was suffering.

>> "Wesley should be dead. Several post