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Peter and the Wolf... -- Rufus, 13:39:06 04/18/01 Wed

The things that stand out for me are: Doc was humming Peter and the Wolf,
canine and serpent can see the key, so do we have a demon with canine
aspects here? Dawn seemed to see Doc in a different way than Spike did, so
is there more to Doc than meets the eye?
The Gohra demon, sounds like the Mohra demon, they have the similarity of
the Mohra having the blood of eternity, the Gohras eggs giving life. So as
Spike was bitten by the demon what will happen will he get an aspect of the
Gohra demon (I don't mean he will start laying really big eggs here), if so
what?
Doc said that he saw Spike before, ramblings of an old man, or did Doc see
the past, or how about the future?
Doc seemed to want to see Dawn again, is Doc the Wolf?


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[> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- The Godfather, 13:43:36 04/18/01 Wed

I don't think Spike will get anything from the demon because it's
life-giving was in it's eggs and not in it's saliva or blood. I don't see
them basically repeating the been there done that story from both BUFFY and
ANGEL..

I however do wonder about Doc's ramblings..

-Shawn


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[> [> Doc's looks and a Possible Spoiler -- Scott L., 15:40:12 04/18/01 Wed

I thought that Doc's eyes looked a lot like Jinx's eyes. Coincidence?

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TV Guide said that Joel Gray played a hell-god in the 100th episode. That
means that either Doc is the third hell god -- a part of the Glory, Ben, ?
triptych, or the hell-god will be played by the same actor.


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[> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Masquerade, 14:26:46 04/18/01 Wed

And does Doc know Dawn is not all she appears to be?

I also wonder if Glory will take her minion Jinx to Doc because she said
something about "getting him fixed" after he died so she could "hear the
story again without all that moaning" or some thing.


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[> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Rufus, 15:11:12 04/18/01 Wed

I think that the Doc knows that Dawn is more than a little girl....one
note....he did first offer a spell to make her grieving easier. The bit
where he took a bit of her hair and commented on the DNA being strong was
something to remember. I don't think that Doc is a dottering old man, I
think he is way more. I considered the fact that as he is supposed to be
well known for spells of reserection that his home may be his place of
business so I considered that Spike wouldn't need an invite. I also thing
that the bite of the demon should be considered because they made such a
point of showing it.


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[> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Wiccagrrl, 14:30:16 04/18/01 Wed

Well, the tail Dawn saw poking out under the coat seemed pretty reptilian.
And there was the thing with they eyes going all black. So, I'm guessing
he's probably not just a mere mortal, not even a powerful and knowledgable
one. There's more to this guy than meets the eye.

I would really love to know what the comment about knowing Spike was all
about- sitting in the corner mart, playing Dominoes, but different color
hair and not a vampire? Was this refering to William? Was it implying he
could see the past, or that he was around back then, too?


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[> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Solitude1056, 14:41:15 04/18/01 Wed

I would really love to know what the comment about knowing Spike was all
about- sitting in the corner mart, playing Dominoes, but different color
hair and not a vampire?

But even stranger, to me, was Spike's reaction - it seemed verging on
defensiveness. (Someone else who taped it may need to re-watch, 'cause I
could be remembering or interpreting that wrong.) But he sure seemed
insistent for some reason that no, no, he didn't know the old man. And for a
bit there, perhaps I wasn't the only one wondering why Spike felt it
necessary to insist this was his first meeting with the old man, until the
old man suddenly changed tack completely & said something about brown hair
(and glasses, too, I thought).

I may be reading way between the lines here, but it seemed to me that Spike
had some sort of invitation, even if it was unnecessary... that looked like
the guy's living room, and it didn't seem like the kind of place that was a
storefront. Why else, then, would you just walk in - needing an invitation
or no? Not knocking at all but just walking in implied to me a "Spike's been
here before." On top of that, I took the old man's words - and Spike's
testy, almost insistent negative reaction - to be that these two had met
before. Perhaps the old man was not-so-subtly reminding Spike to watch his
step, for some reason.

And as long as I'm at it, why so unsubtle a demonic touch? I mean, come on -
usually the baddies don't go out of their way to broadcast that they're
baddies unless it serves some sort of purpose. And Spike,
Mr-Notice-Everything, seemed to be quite impervious to Dawn's nudges and
jumpiness at seeing Doc's repitilian side. It just struck me as awfully
heavy-handed - one glimpse of the tail is intriguing, but the eyes seemed a
bit of overkill.


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[> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Wiccagrrl, 15:51:49 04/18/01 Wed

And as long as I'm at it, why so unsubtle a demonic touch? I mean, come on -
usually the baddies don't go out of their way to broadcast that they're
baddies unless it serves some sort of purpose.

Which sort of leaves me wondering how much of a baddie he really is. I mean,
they left little question that he wasn't completely human. But he seemed to
almost be trying to spook Dawn, and maybe he was. He made it awfully clear
to Dawn that this was a bad idea. He warned of the consequences, didn't in
anyway claim this would really be her mom coming back, etc. He also told her
(accurately, apparently) how to break the spell if things didn't go right.
But he was going to leave the choice to her.

I also find myself wondering, since the spell did technically work, if Dawn
is going to find herself being held to what she was saying/offering in that
spell. It did sort of sound like she was offering herself to Osiris. Could
be wrong, but it would make things interesting.


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[> [> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Rufus, 18:22:19 04/18/01 Wed

Consider Satan, he gives you the choice of selling your soul, with complete
awareness of what you are doing. With vampires there is generally no choice
you are made so that evil is easy to see. With darker evil there is that
element of needing you to make the choice to follow the darkness without the
light to guide your way. In the shooting script it says about Doc:

"As he moves to another stack of papers and we see what Dawn is seeing -
just a hint of Reptilian tail curling from under his bathrobe. But before we
can really make it out, it's gone agian - disappearing into his clothes.?

"As Dawn takes his hand - Doc's eyes go Dompletely Black for just a moment,
another hint of unnerving evil."

Spike didn't see what Dawn saw. That was clear. So what type of evil is Doc.
Ambiguous or very smart deliberate evil? What does he want from Dawn...is he
the third hellgod or a bigger bad? I see alot of snake imagery this year. If
Doc is the snake, what is he offering?


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[> [> [> [> [> Check out my post below... -- Jen C., 19:46:15 04/18/01 Wed

...on the corruption of Dawn. I really got an impression that Dawn was
slipping down a path of corruption with this particular turn of events. She
may have terminated the spell before we could see the outcome, but she was
very determined to carry it out, regardless of the cost to herself, Buffy,
and whatever shell of a mom the spell would have called up.

I think that Dawn is a plum waiting to be plucked by whatever evil can
discern her true nature. It may be that that Doc is one of those evils - who
knows what he may want?


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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Check out my post below... -- June, 23:16:55 04/18/01
Wed

Dawn is all too easily enticed by evil given the right situation.

And at times she really scares me.

Or, to put it another way, she is just an ordinary teenager.

Dawn is basically a good kid, but there is the very real possibility that
her darker nature might assert itself over the strong light of goodness that
is within her. Just like there is with the rest of us.

Dawn is a very strong willed individual. She showed great strength in this
episode, albeit in pursuit of an less than honourable objective, but came
through in the end. People underestimate Dawn.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Dawn gets a personality -- Charlotte, 14:01:48 04/19/01
Thu

This is the first episode in which I felt Dawn really developed a character
with a personality. In the past, I felt that she was just portraying an
annoying, childlike and undeveloped personality. In this episode, her
character grew. She knew what SHE wanted and what SHE had to do to get what
she wanted. She spoke more strongly and acted more strongly. It makes
perfect sense that this would be the episode where her character and
independence are truly developed because she could no longer depend on her
mother.

The only other times she started showing her own personality is in her
interactions with and about Spike.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Dawn gets a personality -- Sue, 10:21:58
04/22/01 Sun

All her life people have protected Dawn. Treated her as "the baby" as the
immature one.

It is only natural for her to adopt, to a certain extent, the role others
have placed her in.

Often our perceptions of ourselves, and therefore our personalities are
shaped by how we perceive others perceiving us.

Dawn has always been treated as the baby, as immature, so we shouldn't be so
shocked when she acts that way. Just fulifilling their expectations of her.

She might have adopted the role assigned to her by others to a certain
extent, by those around her, but as she grows she will be able to fight this
to some extent. People underestimate Dawn. And that's a big mistake. Dawn is
stronger than she even realizes.


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[> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Eania Snow, 04:44:52 04/19/01 Thu

Just rewatched the scene over a few times. When Dawn see's the Doc's tail
spike is lighting a cigrette when it happens and is not really looking at
him. When his eyes change its kind of hard to tell if hes looking in dawns
direction as well. As for him having evil intentions with the spell I don't
really think there was. He tried to convince her not to do it and something
bad would come out of it. As far as Spike knowing him im pretty sure he
didn't his reaction is more along the lines of amuzed at the crazy old guy.
I think that part was there also to show that he was not human. Being able
to spot a vampire in less then 3 seconds is not a human triat.


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[> [> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Dean, 21:35:37 04/20/01 Fri

Doc is evil of the worst type.

The type that comes to you appearing harmless, even friendly, and helpful.

He is the corruptor!


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Sue, 21:51:34 04/20/01 Fri

When I think of Doc the first thing that comes to mind is

ew!


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[> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Ramo, 18:25:05 04/18/01 Wed

I think this Doc guy is bad news, and I agree he's probably much more than
what meets the eye.

First, it was mentioned that his tail and eyes seemed reptilian. Doesn't
that mean that reptiles can see the key (like the snake), so he may have
known what Dawn was?

Also, that thing with knowing Spike from before...it may have been before he
was a vampire. He appears to be a demon, and since he's old, maybe he's not
immortal but is slower in the aging process.

Another thing--he told Dawn there were problems with the spell, but overall
encouraged it and gave her the information for free. Then, when she shook
his hand, you could see a hint of evil in his demon eyes. Maybe he had
different goals and plans to helping Dawn other than just being nice.

The Peter and the Wolf humming I think symbolizes that though the tune
sounds pretty innocent and cute, it shows evil is approaching (not
necessarily a wolf, but something).

This guy seems very interesting, and I hope we find out more about him.


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[> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- purplegrrl, 14:33:57 04/18/01 Wed

Thanks for the thread, Rufus. I was going to mention "Peter and the Wolf"
but it slipped my mind.

My take on Doc whistling "Peter's Theme" from "Peter and the Wolf" was that
it was a prediction that Dawn was blithely entering into something that she
was better off staying out of. Much like Peter, who goes into the woods with
his toy gun because he wants to hunt the wolf. In the end, Peter must be
rescued from his folly by the Huntsman. Just like Dawn had to be rescued
from what she had wrought by Buffy's admission of fear and despair, and
reassurances of family.

I guess that would equate Spike to the Duck who follows Peter into the
woods!!


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[> [> Perfect analogy Purplegrrl! (N/T) -- estefena, 15:01:24 04/18/01 Wed


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[> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- Tornado, 11:51:09 04/19/01 Thu

I guess that would equate Spike to the Duck who follows Peter into the
woods!!

And the duck (Sonja) is eaten alive by the wolf (Ghorra demon?) and comes
out alive(!).

Hmmm....


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[> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- LoriAnn, 13:25:19 04/20/01 Fri

"And the duck (Sonja)[Spike] is eaten alive by the wolf (Ghorra demon?) and
comes out alive(!)."

Except Spike isn't alive to start with, so is he eaten by the wolf
(whatever) and comes out ALIVE?


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[> [> [> [> Re: Peter and the Wolf... -- purplegrrl, 14:15:49 04/20/01 Fri

I think this was meant as an analogy, not literally.


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[> [> That's not the story I know. -- Diana Michelle, 14:40:04 04/20/01 Fri

I've heard a different Peter and the Wolf:

Early one morning, Peter opened the gate and went out into the big green
meadow next to his house.

The first friend he met was a little bird sitting on the branch of the big
tree. The bird was chirping away happily, "All is quiet, All is quiet....."

Soon a duck came waddling by she was glad that Peter had forgotten to close
the gate. Now she could take a nice swim in the deep pond that was in the
middle of the meadow.

Seeing the duck, the little bird flew down next to her on the grass. "What
kind of a bird are you if you can't fly," said the bird. To this the duck
replied "What kind of a bird are you if you can't swim?" Then she dove into
the pond.

They argued and argued.The duck swimming in the pond and the little bird
hopping after her along the shore.

Suddenly, something caught Peter's attention. It was a cat sneaking through
the grass.

The cat thought; While the bird is busy arguing with the duck,I'll just grab
him.

"Look out!" shouted Peter to the bird and he immediately flew up into the
tree. While the duck swam as fast as she could to the middle of the pond
where the cat couldn't touch her. And she quacked at the cat with all her
might.

But the cat was more interested in the bird. So she walked round the tree
and thought "Is it worth climbing up so high? By the time I got there the
bird will have flown away."

While Peter was watching the cat, he suddenly saw his grandfather standing
at the opened gate. His grandfather was very angry because Peter had gone
out in a meadow. This is the dangerous place, he grumbled. "If a wolf should
come out of the forest, then what would you do?"

But Peter payed no attention to his grandfather's words. Because boys like
Peter aren't afraid of wolves.

But his grandfather took Peter by the hand, led him home and locked the
gate.

No sooner had Peter gone,when a big grey wolf did come out of the forest.

In a flash the cat climbed up the tree. The duck was quacking louder than
before, and in her excitment she jumped out of the pond. But no matter how
fast the duck tried to waddle away, she couldn't escape the wolf.

He was getting nearer and nearer, catching up with her then he got her and
with one gulp he swallowed her.

And now this is the situation the cat was sitting on one branch of the big
tree ..... and the bird on another, which was not too close to the cat.

And the wolf, still famished, was walking round and round the tree looking
at them with hungry eyes.

In the meantime: Peter, without the slightest fear, stood behind the closed
gate watching everything that was going on.

Suddenly he got a brilliant idea. He ran home and found a strong rope. Then
he climbed up the high stone wall that seperates his house from the meadow.

The big tree in the meadow was so big that one of its branches streched out
over the wall.

So Peter grabbed the branch and swung himself easily over on to the tree
right next to the bird.

"Listen" he wispered to the bird. "Fly down and circle round the wolf's
head, but only be careful that he doesn't catch you."

The bird came so closed to the wolf's head that he almost brushed it with
his wings while the wolf snapped in every direction.

How the bird did worry about the wolf! And how the wolf wanted to catch the
bird! But the bird was clever enough so that the wolf simply couldn't do
anything about it.

Meanwhile, Peter made a lasso and he carefully let it down and down, untill
he caught the wolf by the tail and pulled it with all his might.

The moment the wolf felt his tail was caught in the lasso, he began to jump
wildly trying to get loose.

But Peter tied the other end of rope to the branch, and the wolf's jumping
only made the rope round his tail tighter.

Just then, Peter saw some hunters coming out of the woods. They followed the
wolf's trail and shot as they went.

But Peter sitting in the tree shouted to the hunters. "Don't shoot! The bird
and I have already caught the wolf. Now help us take him to the zoo."

So now you can just imagine the victory parade. Peter is of course in the
lead. And following Peter, the hunters leading the wolf. And winding up the
whole parade, grandfather and the cat.

Grandfather tossed his head discontentedly. "Well", he said, "and if Peter
hadn't caught the wolf? What's then?"

Above them flew the little bird chirping merrily. "My,what brave fellows we
are, Peter and I! Look what we have caught!"

And if you listen very carefully, you can hear the duck quacking very softly
inside the wolf,of course. Because the wolf, in his excitment and hurry, had
swallowed her alive.

The ending is actually creepy because no one realizes that the duck is still
alive inside the wolf and that it's slowly going to die a torturous death by
stomach acid.


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[> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- purplegrrl, 14:56:59 04/20/01
Fri

You're probably right. It's been a *very* long time since I've heard the
whole story. I just remember the music, especially "Peter's Theme."

Could this story still work as an analogy for Dawn's and Spike's actions in
"Forever"? Since very little in the Buffyverse/Jossverse is done as a
"throwaway," I think it's very interesting that Doc would choose to whistle
a tune from "Peter and the Wolf" when he was helping Dawn. Both Peter and
Dawn scoffed at the consequences of their actions when they were told of the
dangers.


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[> [> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- Diana Michelle, 15:10:59
04/20/01 Fri

And does this mean that there will be a duck, An innocent who suffers and
dies because of Dawn's impetuousness?


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- purplegrrl, 16:07:44
04/20/01 Fri

I think the Spike-Duck analogy could still work. While not an innocent (not
by a long shot!), Spike could suffer some sort of consequences for going
along with Dawn's plan to resurrect her mother. He knows darn good and well
that if Buffy finds out, he is toast, or dust as it were.

And the Peter-Dawn analogy could be more arcing rather than just this single
incident. Dawn is young and unmindful of her own mortality. She also wants
to play with the "grown-ups" - fight like Buffy, do spells like Willow, have
a boyfriend like Anya. Dawn's bound to do something else where the
consequences lead to someone being hurt.


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- Solitude1056, 17:28:47
04/20/01 Fri

And does this mean that there will be a duck, An innocent who suffers and
dies because of Dawn's impetuousness?

I won't give the spoiler here, but I will say that it seems like Spike isn't
the duck (in this version), he's the bird. He flies around, worries the
baddie, and gets free. Someone else must be the one who suffers. And while
we're at it, is the Wolf the Ghorra monster, or is it Glory?

(Also: several of the online references to the composer's original narrated
version mention that it's specifically the "first day of spring" on which
the wolf is outwitted. Hmm...)


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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- Rufus, 18:21:16
04/20/01 Fri

I'm still thinking that perhaps the wolf could be the harmless but
reptillian Doc.....or perhaps Sleepy, Dopey, or, sorry, wrong story.....


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: That's not the story I know. -- Sue, 19:19:16
04/20/01 Fri

"wolf could be the harmless but reptillian Doc."

Doc isn't harmless. Ew!

Dawn - Stay Away.




Faith, Joyce & Dawn -- Hauptman, 15:46:11 04/18/01 Wed

I think that Faith, if she even thinks about these things anymore, will
mourn the loss of Joyce. As I remember it, before Fiath punched her inthe
face and tied her up, Joyce was pretty supportive of the #2 Slayer. Having
lost her mother, maybe she will feel even more connected to Buff.

Hey, Will Faith ever get to see Dawn? I wonder if Faith would see something
different, after all she was the first perso n to know about Dawn in a way.
I hope we get to see her this season, but chances are quite slim.


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[> Re: Faith, Joyce & Dawn -- Max, 21:30:46 04/19/01 Thu

"Hey, Will Faith ever get to see Dawn? I wonder if Faith would see something
different, after all she was the first person to know about Dawn in a way. "

I don't believe that it was Faith coming to Buffy in her dreams. Certainly
Buffy's subconcious was using her image, but that was no more Faith, than it
was Tara in Restless.


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[> I hate to speak ill of the dead -- Kurt, 20:45:51 04/26/01 Thu

But I have always gotten the impression that Joyce used Faith.

"Joyce was pretty supportive of the #2 Slayer. "

Or so it seemed at first. But perhaps there was an ulterior motive for that.

With Faith in the picture, there would be no need for Buffy to be the Slayer
anymore. Let Faith handle the slaying stuff, then Buffy can forget about it,
go off to College, and have an normal life.

Perhaps Joyce felt playing the Surrogate Mother role for Faith was her Real
Daughter's ticket out of being slayer. Remember she asked Buffy "Have you
ever tried not being the Slayer?" With Faith in Sunnydale, Joyce hoped Buffy
could be her normal daughter again.

You can't blame Faith for feeling a bit used by being taken advantage of
someone who was using her greatest need (that of family which she finally
found in no less than the Mayor) for their own gain. I am sure she was sad
to hear of Joyce's passing, but I am also sure she has mixed feelings about
Joyce.


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[> Re: Faith, Joyce & Dawn -- Jane, 06:39:02 04/27/01 Fri

I hope Faith does come back to either Angel or even Buffy. I don't think
though hearing about Buffy's mom's death is going to make her feel any more
connected to Buffy. I am sure she will be sad to hear about it, and sad
about how it will effect Buffy, for despite her issues with Buffy, she
generally sees her in a favorable light, but a part of her, mind you a very
small part, will think -"Well now Buffy is going to get a taste of what it
is like to be me. To be all alone."

Angel used to visit Faith. Does he anymore?


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[> [> Re: Faith, Joyce & Dawn -- Jane, 06:43:15 04/27/01 Fri

Mind you it will be "all alone except her sister and the scooby gang" so
even there Faith will still have jealousy for what Buffy still has.

Part of Faith, a small part, will think "well, you lost your mom, tough, yes
I am sure it is, but you are still the lucky one."


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[> [> [> ESP -- Hauptman, 07:49:56 04/27/01 Fri

I guess you are right, Jane, Faith will always consider Buffy the lucky one,
the one with the family, the scoobies, the fab, seemingly limitless
wardrobe, the pair of devoted (though absent) boyfriends and the saucy kid
sister. And even if Buff has recently lost mummy, Faith will think that at
least she will carry the memmory of the love Joyce had for her like a warm
blanket rather than the shroud of broken glass Faith has to cuddle up with
whenever she thinks about the past.
Okay, maybe that wasn't Faith talking directly to buffy when buffy had those
visions, But it wasn't totally Buffy either. "Is this your head or mine?"
Buffy asks. I can't remember Faith's answer exactly, but I think it
indicated both or neither. Buffy seems to have ESP of a sort. Her dreams
come true to some degree several times. I am not sure that other slayers
have this ability, though Giles did say that Slayers could hone in on
Vampires, but it wasn't clear if that is based on psychic ability or if it
was because after a while you just know what to look for. The scoobies have
been able to spot vamps and Riley did in the monster bar.

But if it is psychic, then shouldn't Faith have the same ablility? And since
it was Buffy who, in a trace, saw through the spell that makes Dawn appear
human, shouldn't Faith, who is a lsayer and, let's face it a little crazy,
be able to see something other than what is on the mystical surface? And, by
the way, since crazy people can see through Dawn's corporeal spell,
shouldn't Glory, who is borderline, have seen something? That might be
nitpicking.

And will somebody tell me what the hell "730" means. Gosh!




My thoughts on 'Forever' with a spin towards Cinematic Artistry - (Spoilers)
also (Long)) -- OnM, 16:05:41 04/18/01 Wed

I thought I'd do something a little different this time around. Usually I
stop by the board and read up on
the comments of others that are currently posted before setting out to write
down my own thoughts and
post them. I do this mainly to avoid bringing up points that others have
already made until I have had a
chance to ponder them. This time around, I'll volunteer my impressions
firstly, and put just a little different
spin on them, a spin created by just one of the things that struck me most
strongly about this week's
wonderful episode of Buffy, 'Forever'.

The regulars here at ATPoBtVS who read my movie recommendation column each
Friday night may recall
that when I started the feature, I made note that cinema has become a sort
of common language that we
can utilize to share experience with one another. Humans tend to think not
only with words, but with
images, and you could make a very good case that from an evolutionary
perspective our DNA even
orients us primarily toward understanding the essence of things in a visual
manner.

I have quite a number of thoughts regarding this weeks episode, but I think
that I'd like to start with an
appreciation of just how *cinematic* Joss' Buffyverse is, and how the use of
that 'common visual
language' of the 20th century influences how we interpret an episode, and
the emotions that spring from
that interpretation.

'Forever' opens with a shot of Buffy wandering through a room that is
obviously at a funeral home, where
she is attempting the sad duty of selecting a casket for her recently
deceased mother. The first shot fades
up out of blackness, we see a small area of white light, which turns out to
be a lamp, and then we begin to
recognize Buffy's face as she emerges from the darkness.

She walks slowly around the room, finally stops before a casket, pauses,
then raises the lid partway, begins
to look inside. Suddenly the lights in the room come up and we cut to a shot
of Dawn, Giles and the
funeral director entering the room. The two adults stop just shortly inside
the doorway to the room, Dawn
continues walking forward until she is in between Buffy and the two adults,
she on the one side of the
casket and Buffy at the other side.

The funeral director comments approvingly on Buffy's choice. Buffy avoids
looking at Dawn and walks
over to stand with Giles and the director. She crosses her arms in front of
her chest, speaks briefly with
Dawn, who while not disapproving of Buffy's choice, wonders aloud if perhaps
her mom 'wouldn't like
something else better'. Buffy then responds to the director's question about
taking some more time to
decide by stating no, she's made a decision . She looks up at Dawn and asks
for her OK, but the question
really isn't a question. The scene ends with the camera close up on Dawn,
watching the emotions playing
out on her face as the others leave the room.

Now, I had to play this scene back several times on my VCR just to get the
modest level of detail described
in the paragraph above, because my memory isn't good enough to recall it
that clearly. However, the
emotions and thoughts the scene brought about in my mind weren't really any
different than when I saw
the scene as it happened the very first time. This is because the emotions
of the story are laid out in the
visual shorthand of cinema, and even though the spoken word compliments and
strengthens the impression
the storytellers intended, you can play the scene with the sound turned off
and it still conveys the same
feelings.

Indeed, without even speaking a single word, the lighting alone in the
beginning of the scene reflects what
must be Buffy's emotional mood at the moment. The scene lighting makes use
of a great deal of light and
shadow, but even then the visual range is compressed, there are initially no
very bright lights, only a range
of soft to somber. When the lights come up, the physical placement of the
characters within the room and
their body language continues to tell the story without words. This is the
essence of cinematic storytelling,
and here is how I interpret what happens in this space of a few short
minutes:

Buffy appears out of darkness, the light is behind her. The way ahead is
poorly lit. She is alone and
uncertain. She gains a small moment of focus by concentrating on the task of
the moment, even attempts a
certain level of courage by lifting the casket lid, thus more directly
confronting the painful reality of what
lies ahead. Her focus is broken by the arrival of the others, especially her
sister, and now she is obligated to
include them in her thoughts, assume the responsibilities she again has been
handed not out of choice but of
fate.

The rest of the scene shows the distance between her and her sister, from
her sister's perspective. Buffy
avoids eye contact, moves over and stands with the other adults in the room,
in a corner, leaving Dawn
alone out in the middle of the room. She crosses her arms in front of
herself, a distancing gesture, and all of
the 'adults' are also standing in a shadowed area, while Dawn stands in the
lighter spot, much of the light
ironically provided by reflection off the bright white casket Dawn has at
her back. (The significance to me
of this minor detail is that Buffy sees herself as moving in and out of
darkness, that it is something that one
must just accept and get through, while Dawn sees only that the light behind
her is gone, and she sees no
future without that light).

Most adult viewers can easily see through Buffy's outward appearance of
being 'in control' and see the
depth of pain and grief just under the surface. Dawn cannot, and only sees
in her older sister's (apparently)
authoritative manner that someone supposedly close to her has no
comprehension of her own level of pain.
Thus we have set up the beginning of the story, with the resolution at the
end once again using lighting to
show the depth of emotion felt by Dawn and Buffy, this time fully aware of
just how the other feels, as they
collapse together in deep shadow, holding each other tightly and sobbing
uncontrollably.

I could go on and detail many scenes in the same manner, but I think you get
the idea. You could even say
that I'm not really pointing out anything you didn't already know, but the
fact of the matter is that this
level of care is very rare in television, and even among the better shows on
the air, is almost never used this
effectively-- it's the difference between being merely a competent craftsman
and being an artist.

Some other favorite scenes in this ep with a bent towards cinematic
artistry:

The scene that begins in the upstairs hall of the Summer's home with the
camera panning the rows of
pictures on the wall and passing Buffy and Dawn sitting silently and in the
same positions in each of their
rooms.

The transition from the above scene to the scene at the funeral, where the
camera pans the rows of people
in the present day of the Summers' family in contrast to the pictures that
represented the past.

The scene where Tara asks Buffy if she wants Willow and herself to wait a
while longer for her, and the
lighting slowly changes from the warm light of afternoon to the cold, blue
light of night, all the while Buffy
stands unmoving.

The appearance of Angel and the handclasp as they stand side by side.
(Noting the visual irony of her in
white, him in black as they stand in the darkness).

The arrangement of the three sequences whereby the various characters try to
deal with their grief in
varying manners and with varying degress of insight-- Buffy and Angel,
Willow, Tara and Dawn, and
Xander and Anya.

And of course, the scene at the end with Buffy and Dawn, as mentioned
before, bookending the opening
scene. Speaking of bookending, it also struck me that this episode is a
bookend for 'The Body'. Consider
that the tone is very different for each, the more 'reality based'
characteristics of 'The Body' vs. the more
conventional 'cinematic' aspects of 'Forever'. The former deals with the
occurance of death itself, and the
sense of time suspending in the immediacy of the moment, and the latter
deals with the aftermath of death
(the funeral preperations, the grieving, etc.) and the sense that time drags
out or expands as the
consequences of the death settle in and the mind has time to dwell on those
consequences. Take note of the
deliberate differences in sound and lighting between the two episodes, and
how they each reinforce the
telling of each story in different ways.

If one thinks of the two shows as actually being one longer show, in two
major acts or parts, then again
this appears to be a cinematic convention, since most films run from 1 1/2
to 2 hours. It certainly isn't the
first time Joss & Co. have done this, as in 'Surprise/Innocence' or 'Bad
Girls/Consequences' or 'This
Year's Girl/Who Are You?', for example. (I also believe I recall that in an
interview Joss remarked that
one of the more restrictive/challenging factors he had to deal with in
creating the show was the need to
work within the rigid 40-some minute time frame that television practice
dictates).

Finally, it would be one thing if the cinematic tendencies of the show were
an occasional thing, but as we
all know, themes and techniques like the ones I've described have been
nearly constant throughout the
entire run of the show over the last 4 3/4 seasons, and 'Forever' is just
the latest example of this dedication
to artistry. Quite a long time ago, I commented in a another post here that
BtVS could very well rise out of
the collective mass of our history of popular entertainment and become the
Shakespeare of the 20th
Century, given the passage of time, and with the understanding that the
popular artists of the current day
sometimes turn into the classics admired by future generations. If the next
five episodes keep to the same
standards as the last two, this season will surely become one of the most
appreciated 'plays' by those who
come after us.

*******

So, there are some thoughts from my Little Brain to yours. As always, your
comments and insights are
most welcome. Thanks for reading!

OnM


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[> Re: My thoughts on 'Forever' with a spin towards Cinematic Artistry --
Nina, 17:33:34 04/18/01 Wed

OnM, What a great post! Before "Forever" aired here, I watched "The Body"
right before. I wanted to be in that special state and forget about the 6
weeks of hell... I felt exactly what you described. One show is the
aftermath of the other. Darkness and Light. Contrast. Not only did they
surprised me with the plot, but the cinematography was very interesting. I
was skeptic about ITW, I had many reserved towards MN as a director. But I
was totally surprised with this one. She did a terrific job. I love that
little scene with Giles drinking and listening to his music. Short but
subtle!

The only thing that I still have a lot of difficulty with is the music. I
tried to give that new comer a break (and I actually loved what he did in
FFL) but most of the time he always takes the same music instruments and as
far as I try to understand the logic of his themes (I am a musician and I
should be able to understand!) I don't. If anybody does understand... please
help me!


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[> [> Re: My thoughts on 'Forever' with a spin towards Cinematic Artistry --
Rufus, 18:50:24 04/18/01 Wed

And who can forget the scene where Buffy askes Dawn "who is going to take
care of us now"? Buffy was finally stripped of the pretense of strength.
Buffy is just as scared as Dawn but showed it very differently. The Body of
Joyce may be in the ground but both girls now understand that it is in their
hearts that Joyce will live forever. Tara had it right because she lived
through loss and was in a different stage of grief. Dawns preoccupation of
where the body would be ignored the fact that Joyce was no longer with the
body. The Key is learning.


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[> [> Re: My thoughts on 'Forever' with a spin towards Cinematic Artistry --
OnM, 06:08:37 04/19/01 Thu

Thanks, Nina, so glad you enjoyed my humble thoughts!

Judging by what I've read from other posters, particularly on the Cross and
Stake board, many people seem not to like Marti Noxon, or are unsure of her
contribution to the stable of Buffyverse writers/directors. I have three
comments in that regard:

1 > Joss thinks highly of her. Therefore lesser mortals such as you or I
should always give the benefit of the doubt.

2 > Some years back a fellow I worked for made a comment re: movie critics
that they weren't of any value because he went to see a film recommended by
one and he didn't like the film. I was rather amused by this, he seemed to
look at the service critics provide like it was a movie version of *Consumer
Reports*, and therefore universally correct and infallable. I didn't attempt
to explain the messy reality of one artist trying to interpret and
discuss/recommend the work of another artist, it was obviously a concept
beyond his ken.

3 > Years ago I read an interview with an actor who had been in the film
scene for many decades (it may have been Marcello Mastroianni, not sure) and
he commented in one part of the interview that Americans and Europeans seem
to have very different expectations of movies/acting. He said that Europeans
seem to accept that there will naturally be ups and downs over the course of
a career, whether it be in acting or directing, that you can make a great
film one time and a not-so-great one another time. Americans, on the other
hand, seem to expect that every film will be an improvement on the one
before, and an actor or director who is a hot commodity at the moment is
yesterday's news after making only one poor film. He felt this was
unrealistic, and I certainly agree. Even genius's have off-days-- or years.

Finally, I would love to hear your thoughts as a musician regarding music on
BtVS/Angel. I love music, but, alas, do not have the coveted musician gene.
(I do have a least a small bit of the photography gene, which enables me to
comment at least partly intelligently on film and photographic art).

Please detail what you mean by the music not doing the thing for you, I'd
love to hear about it and I'm sure others would too. This is just as valid a
topic as the cinematography, I don't get into it myself because see above
re: music gene.

For example, why does the Buffy opening theme song still rock my world even
though I've heard it now over 100 times? It never gets stale, and always
gives me a charge. There must be something the band is doing technically
that causes this to happen. What is it?

Please post! ;)


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[> [> [> Re: OmN - Great Analysis (no N/T) -- Brian, 11:33:45 04/19/01 Thu


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[> [> [> music in BtVS -- purplegrrl, 12:24:22 04/19/01 Thu

***why does the Buffy opening theme song still rock my world even though
I've heard it now over 100 times? It never gets stale, and always gives me a
charge. There must be something the band is doing technically that causes
this to happen. What is it?***

Yeah, OnM, I know what you mean. While there may be something actually in
the music (chords, arrangement of notes, rhythm, tempo) that causes such a
response in us, it is probably more that we associate that theme music with
the rollercoaster ride that is "Buffy the Vampire Slayer." Meaning that we
know we will see and feel drama, comedy, horror, love, angst, deception,
acceptance, friendship, betrayal, mystery, magic, and a hundred other sights
and sounds - even if we know we will be watching a re-run. Personally, I
have favorite movies and other TV shows that illicit a similar response -
even if I've seen them dozens of times. The theme music sets off our
anticipation of what is to come.

Does this help?


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[> [> [> [> Re: music in BtVS -- Anthony8, 19:14:50 04/22/01 Sun

Being a struggling musician myself, and for some time, the whole creative
process (where it comes from and why the end result affects people one way
or another) is still a big mystery that I hope I never solve. While there
are some formulaic things that can be done to evoke certain emotions (for
example using a minor key to set a more pensive tone), in my opinion, the
more profound stuff comes from somewhere very magical and, thankfully, not
easily explained. As someone once said (I think it was Elvis Costello),
talking about music is like dancing about architecture.

The great thing about this show (and particularly the more outstanding
episodes like "The Body", "Restless" or "Hush") is that like a good song, it
stands up to multiple viewings without getting old. That's a credit to the
overall package--writing, directing, cinematography, scoring, and song
selection.

As for the theme song, it's the fact that it so effectively compliments the
collage of images in the opening credits, not its merits as a stand-alone
composition (in my opinion at least) that makes it resonate so well with the
viewer. It tells you: "Buffy's coming on--get ready for something worth
watching." Without the show, I'm not sure if Nerf Herder's song would jazz
you up the same way.

In contrast, The Smiths' song "How Soon Is Now" (used as the theme for
"Charmed") has (once again, for me, at least) a lot of power on its own, but
is misleading with respect to how it sets the tone for the show (in my
opinion, the theme song is the best part of that show). When combined with
the images in the opening credits, it makes you think "wow, something good's
coming up." Unfortunately, what you get is "Sabrina" on diluted steroids.

Anyhow, this is just my opinion. Notwithstanding my "dancing about
architecture" comment, I look forward to a future music thread.

A8


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[> [> [> I'll be working on that music thread OnM! Thanks! :) -- Nina,
15:35:17 04/19/01 Thu


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[> Re: Excellent tribute to cinematic artistry on BtVS -- curious, 22:32:12
04/18/01 Wed

I completely agree with your assessment of the long standing artistry in
this series, and since there is nothing I could possibly add to that
thoroughly, well, thorough analysis, I can't resist the temptation to add a
few comments about the Buffy and Angel scenes and so it digresses a bit to
their relationship.

When I was watching this episode, I was simply overwhelmed by the lonely
graveside scene. It was pure visual storytelling with only one line of
dialogue but speaking volumes about their relationship. I'm tempted to write
an entire essay on just this scene, and it only lasted exactly 31 seconds of
screen time. I promise I won't though:)

I've always loved smg and db's portrayal of buffy and angel. In fact, I've
come to the point where I pretty much take smg's dramatic acting for
granted. But when she does the whole speaking volumes without so much as
uttering a single word thing, I start to shake my head in wonder and
admiration. That was one of the most affecting thing about this Ep. A lone
figure having just lost her entire world standing lost in a world of
emptiness. She's not grieving yet, she's not in a state of shock, everything
seems bland and meaningless at this juction in time. Her most important
source of comfort is gone. She can barely feel, there's just this void, this
emptiness within her. She's numb. She stands there, doing absolutely
nothing. The complete numbness she feels is further emphazised by day
turning into night. (I loved the transition. So much more affective than a
simple cut.) And yet she still stands there, alone and empty. I really don't
think the director meant to imply a dream seqence by this shot. I truly
think it is an establishment of buffy's state of mind. To me the 'non
acting' was spot on. To carry a 30 second shot of doing absolutely nothing
and conveying so much is no small achievment. (I mean try it guys. Stand in
front of someone whose got their attention completely focused on you and do
absolutely nothing for 30 seconds and see just how long that is.)

I thought Angel showing up after dark was expected. Not only by the
audience, but by Buffy herself. She wasn't in the least bit shocked by his
presence. She didn't move, didn't turn around to express any surprise.
Angel's solemn dialogue, " I'm sorry, I couldn't come any sooner", is said
in such a way that he knew she would want him to be there and knew she
thought enough of him to know he would be there. Her barely perceptible nod,
her grasping of his hand in an understated gesture of gratitude and somehow
of knowing that he would be come, would be there for her, spoke volumes
about their relationship. They could have ended the Angel and Buffy
interlude right there, and I would have understood. It kinda of went like
this to me, but without so many words.
Buffy: "I knew you would come. I needed you to come and you did."
Angel: "How could I not be here at a time like this? If you didn't know I
would be here, I would have been dissappointed in what you thought of me."

The scene under the oak tree was a real treat. I don't care what anyone
says, but this scene put into words the undeniable companionship that exists
between the two. I don't even care about the whole romantic issue. It seems
to me that it goes way beyond that. Some fans say that this Angel doesn't
mesh with the Angel of his own show. Well, that's true. He's a very
different Angel there. He has a working relationship that is at an unease
right now. He's trying to open up, but is still guarded, and leads a
completely different life that Buffy is not part of. The thing is, the Angel
on "forever" isn't so much a season 2/3 Angel, or a currently out of
character Angel, but is "Buffy's Angel." The sweet, caring non jugdeamental
Angel that worries for her, that always listens to her, that wants shield
her from pain, that simply wants to comfort her. It's the Angel that up to
now, no one is privy to but Buffy. Conversely, the Buffy sitting underneath
the oak tree is "Angel's Buffy". The one who doesn't put on a brave front
for everyone else all the while frightened on the inside. To the scoobies,
her mom, her sister and even Giles, she frequently presents "slayer Buffy".
She would never admit without any reservations whatsoever that "I'm
seriously needy right now" without first fighting it and asserting "I'm
fine" in front of anyone else but Angel. "Angel's Buffy" has always been
very vocal and open about her inner feelings to Angel. These sides of our
hero and heroine seems very much to be private to them and not many, if any,
get to access that territory.

I don't think its a coincidence or an accident that this episode is called
"forever". Its not just about the finality of Joyce's death, but also about
a deep bond, be it romantic or not, that exists between these two
starcrossed lovers. The romance many not be forever, but the love that goes
beyound romance is 'forever'.

Sorry, I have rambled on far to long. If you have read this much, thanks for
reading.


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[> [> Re: Long Posts 'r' Us -- OnM, 05:44:52 04/19/01 Thu

Many thanks for your kind words! When I was organizing my thoughts on this
ep, the aspects of visual storytelling were the things that just kept coming
to the forefront, and I figured that there would already be quite a lot of
commentary already posted on other parts of the show (and I was right), so I
thought this might be a good approach. The show has *always* been
'cinematic', but this ep just seemed to be extremely so. Even a single
'perfect moment of cinema' (the phrase may not be his, but Roger Ebert was
the first film critic I ever heard use it) in a film is a gift, things just
simply don't always come together to make them, even if you intend it, and
there was not just one, but *many* in this episode. (See my response to
Nina'a post also re: Marti Noxon).

*** "When I was watching this episode, I was simply overwhelmed by the
lonely graveside scene. It was pure visual storytelling with only one line
of dialogue but speaking volumes about their relationship. I'm tempted to
write an entire essay on just this scene..." ***

Please do. Make it long or short or in between, whatever feels right and
gets across what your insights are.

*** "The complete numbness she feels is further emphazised by day turning
into night. (I loved the transition. So much more affective than a simple
cut.)" ***

See, that's the great thing. I interpreted the scene as evidence of Buffy's
grief disassociating her with the passage of time, that what is in reality
hours doesn't seem like that to her. Day, night, all the same. Your comment
on her being numb presents an emotional context that didn't occur to me, but
you are absolutely right, that fits perfectly.

*** "I don't think its a coincidence or an accident that this episode is
called "forever". Its not just about the finality of Joyce's death, but also
about a deep bond, be it romantic or not, that exists between these two
starcrossed lovers. The romance many not be forever, but the love that goes
beyound romance is 'forever'." ***

Very nicely put.

*** "Sorry, I have rambled on far too long." ***

No you haven't. Good post - please ramble again soon! ;)


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[> [> [> Re: Long Posts 'r' Us -- Masquerade, 12:56:09 04/19/01 Thu

I think there is currently a thousand word limit on posts on this board. I
can change it, but I figured it would be ample for the usual treatises.
Don't want anyone to get "dingoed" as they say on some other Buffy board I
know.


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[> [> [> [> Re: Long Posts 'r' Us -- OnM, 21:00:36 04/19/01 Thu

Thousand word limit? That's interesting! Just for grins, I started up Word,
loaded in my post and did a word count (well, the computer did, it's much
faster! ;).

It tells me that there were 1,802 words in my post. You don't have a special
OnM subroutine in the board software, do you?

Not that I wouldn't appreciate it, but we do need to be fair to all the
other verbosistos (and ta's) here!


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[> [> [> [> [> My bad. That's 1000 lines per post, not words. Continue your
verbosting! -- Masquerade, 10:31:59 04/20/01 Fri


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[> [> [> Re: Long Posts 'r' Us -- Rufus, 13:03:31 04/19/01 Thu

I call the OnM posts the "tree killers" cause I get accused of deforesting
when I copy them out(by my husband). So last night I killed yet another
tree....in a good cause of course:):):):) I use recycled paper.


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[> [> [> [> Re: Trees are a renewable resource! -- OnM, 21:16:39 04/19/01
Thu

While I utilize electromagnetism whenever possible, sometimes there is just
no substitute for the papyrus thang. I mean, what, you're gonna park a
laptop on your stomach for summer reading at the beach? That wood be a
beech!

And now... The Larch!!

(Sorry... M. Python attack...)

I buy live Christmas trees and then plant them in the spring, so I've put
back what I've taken out. Mostly, anyway. I hope... ;)


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[> [> Re: Excellent tribute to cinematic artistry on BtVS -- purplegrrl,
12:32:56 04/19/01 Thu

Excellent analysis of Buffy and Angel's relationship. I think this is the
heart of their relationship - that the other is the only one each can and
will be truly open and honest with.


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[> [> Letting down the walls -- fresne, 16:36:09 04/19/01 Thu

I'm afraid after the endless angst of season 3, I had forgotten what Buffy
and Angel could be like together.

Although I never had a problem with Riley, (a few of the guy's
choices/issues, but not the character himself) I was also going, "Riley
who?" after this scene.

Which when I had a chance made me think.

1) It made me think about Buffy's javelin toss of a remark to Angel last
season that she could share her thoughts and emotions with Riley. The
implication being that she couldn't with Angel. Now since by that time, I
had completely forgotten the era before "Oh, the angst, Angel is leaving
me...star-crossed, angst, angst, angst," the remark didn't have the sting that
it might have.

However, if Buffy only showed her soft inner self to Angel and Angel only
showed the vulnerability of his soul to Buffy, well, it was a statement that
completely invalidated all the sharing that had gone before. Buffy was
saying all that sharing was a lie, that she never showed Angel the real her.

2) Which made me think about how, for me, the scene wasn't as if Riley or LA
or Angelus had never existed. It was just all that no longer matters. Buffy
and Angel are now emotionally at a place where they can let down the
barriers again for each other. They can be emotionally honest.

Things are now right between them again. Buffy was both relaxing into an
earlier, less emotionally scarred Buffy, and remerging into something new.
Buffy was able to display weakness and yet when they broke off their kiss,
there was no teen angst, no recriminations, just comfort.

3) Which was important, because the other big issue in the episode was that
Buffy was holding Dawn back. Building up emotional walls. Buffy was, as is
typical, protecting herself. However, Dawn really needed to see, to connect
with Buffy. By being weak together, holding onto each other in front of an
open door, they could begin the healing process.

4) Good thing too, because in a "Joss is evil" sort of way, I think they are
in for a bumpy end of season sleigh ride. After all they may have been
sitting in shadows inside the house, but its really dark outside.


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[> [> [> Re: Letting down the walls -- Grace, 20:30:37 04/19/01 Thu

Sorry.

The whole scene really bothered me.

Especially when she told Angel about how she acted when she found her mom
and how she didn't behave as an adult (Buffy is 21/22 now, going to college
and is technically an adult, but still a Young Adult, the role of being
"adult" is still new to her).

It just reminds me of how Buffy was still an developing child when she met
Angel (ie a teenager). Liam was 26 when he was killed (he might have not
acted like it, but he was an adult.)

Buffy was still becoming. She was then where Dawn will be soon. The
Angel/Buffy relationship was sick! And not because of the whole
Vampire/Slayer thing.

I think it would have been so much better if at the end of the scene "Angel"
would have disappeared into thin air. It wasn't Angel, it was Buffy thinking
what it would be like to have him there at this critical time. It was Buffy
imagining the Angel she would like to remember, not the Angel that really
is. The Angel that she desperately craves to help her through the pain, but
that Angel could never be. And as Buffy shakes herself out of the daze the
realization that Angel never came shakes Buffy to the core, she falls to the
mount of dirt on top of her mother's grave emotionally spent. Tears flowing
she feels so empty, hollow and alone.

I think that would be much better. I don't want to see a real Buffy/Angel
relationship. In fact I never did.


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[> [> [> [> Re: Letting down the walls -- Ben, 06:35:58 04/20/01 Fri

You know what really would have been freaky.

After "Angel" has spent the whole night being supportive and all.

When Buffy tells Angel of how if only she would have gotten there faster or
used CPR better, for "Angel" to say "It is only natural for you to feel
guilty and all. After all it's your fault. You should have been able to save
her."

Buffy looks at Angel. Shocked. She can't believe Angel just said that. Angel
transforms into his Angelus face. "Why didn't you save her Buffy"? Buffy
screams "Angelus" disappears. Buffy wakes up lying upon Joyce's grave in
tears. Angel never came. It was all a bad dream.


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[> [> [> Re: They may have been sitting in shadows inside the house, but its
really dark outside. -- OnM, 21:04:50 04/19/01 Thu

Oh, I really like that! Yeah!


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[> [> Re: Excellent tribute to cinematic artistry on BtVS -- Luna, 17:10:27
04/19/01 Thu

Thank you for that Curious, I'm like in tears right now because you couldn't
be more right about Buffy and Angel. I think the beauty of there
relationship is that it's deeper than they are, they are almost servant's to
it. It would so much easier for them to move on (and they have) but the bond
still remains, and I think that the only peace and resolve they'll ever get
out of all of this is that even if they don't end up as a couple the
connection that has grown between them will always exist, and that when they
truely need eachother they can each BE there without the guilt of being
romantically involved. B/A shipper's seem to drag this on and on and on but
the truth is still there, and I believe that Joss is now a servant to his
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[> Re: My thoughts on 'Forever' with a spin towards Cinematic Artistry -
(Spoilers) also (Long)) -- purplegrrl, 12:40:50 04/19/01 Thu

Excellent analysis, OnM. I believe you are right about a common, inate
symbolic language that we all share - whether we are aware of it or not.

I think "Forever" was more "cinematic" than most BtVS episodes because using
lighting, posture, expressions could more effectively convey the emotions of
everyone involved. A lot of dialog might have "cheapened" the emotions or
diluted them. To see Buffy standing looking lost and completely oblivious to
the passage of time (even if she is waiting for Angel to appear) was much
more effective than if there had been dialog detailing her feelings or even
a voiceover describing how she felt.




Willow was irresponsible -- VanMoodySenior, 18:35:31 04/18/01 Wed

Willow was wanting to help Dawn and I appreciate her zeal, but why give the
book to a nonwitch? If Willow really wanted to help Dawn, then she should
have helped her do the spell instead of just giving her the book. She was
too irresponsible. With power comes responsibility. Hopefully she realizes
this before something really bad happens.
Does anyone wonder what Joyce might have been like if Dawn had not ripped up
the picture? They left us hanging on that one.


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[> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Rufus, 18:55:22 04/18/01 Wed

As I posted before, I think that Willow has the best intentions but doesn't
understand consequences of the use of power. Tara is her guide, and has the
history and knowledge that Willow lacks. I think their next fight will be
over Wiccan ethics. Willow thinks if it is for a good cause go ahead and do
it. What would have happend if Buffy had opened the door and seen what was
her mother fresh from the grave. Willow has to learn to think before she
leaps.


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[> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible...spoilers for Tough Love (ep 19) --
Wiccagrrl, 20:02:19 04/18/01 Wed

I think you're exactly right about where they are going with some of this,
Rufus, and backing up your point, here is the TVGuide writeup for ep 19.
(This was posted at the Kitten, Witches, and Bad Wardrobe board by TVSurfer)

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Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Tough Love
60 min.
While Buffy is preoccupied with the pressure of being her obstinate sister's
keeper, Glory and her minions set out to grab the person whom they believe
to be the Key---Tara. Unfortunately, Tara is more vulnerable than usual, as
both she and Willow are stunned from the aftereffects of their first big
fight.

Tara: Amber Benson. Glory: Clare Kramer. Willow: Alyson Hannigan.
Cast: Sarah Michelle Gellar, Nicholas Brendon, Alyson Hannigan, Anthony S.
Head, James Marsters, Amber Benson, Michelle Trachtenberg, Clare Kramer,
Charlie Weber
Category: Drama
Release Year: 2001


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[> [> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible...spoilers for Tough Love (ep 19) --
Eania Snow, 20:40:34 04/18/01 Wed

Shoot from the quickie I read they said one of the scobbies is going to be
glory's victem. Im really hoping they don't kill her off I was beginning to
really like her now. Take Xander he wants to die. Look at him he has long
hair, TAKE HIM GOD DAMN IT.... TAKE HIM!!!!!

ummmmm tee hee sugar is good


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[> [> [> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible...spoilers for Tough Love (ep 19)
-- Wiccagrrl, 21:29:05 04/18/01 Wed

I don't think they're gonna kill her off. Amber's mentioned in interviews
that she's coming back next year. (Please, please, please let me be right- I
love Tara.)


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible...spoilers for Tough Love (ep
19) -- Scott L., 06:54:24 04/19/01 Thu

Joss said that even if Willow and Tara weren't dating, he'd keep Amber
around, she's become intregral to the heart of the show.


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[> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Anthony8, 18:30:28 04/19/01 Thu

Willow's magical recklessness was apparent as far back (farther?) as the
Halloween "Fear" episode when, despite warnings from Buffy and Oz regarding
her grasp exceeding her reach, she attempted to summon a friendly guide
spirit and got a swarm of little nasties. Then again, it resurfaces with the
wish spell gone awry (Buffy falling in love with Spike, Giles losing his
sight,etc.)

She does not yet seem to appreciate the extent of her power or the potential
negative consequences if it is exercised without discipline. Despite a
couple close calls, so far no one has really been seriously hurt by her
mistakes.

Probably not exactly on point metaphore-wise, but it reminds me of Icarus
(Willow) and Daedalus (Tara).


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[> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Max, 19:06:54 04/18/01 Wed

"Does anyone wonder what Joyce might have been like if Dawn had not ripped
up the picture? They left us hanging on that one."

I try not to think about it, but it does leave me wondering.

On one hand Joyce might have come back normal (albeit a bit confused). Or
she could have come back souless. Or she could have come back with a soul,
but within a decaying human body. Or she could have come back without a
soul, and with a decaying body (which I believe wouldn't be really bringing
her back) ie. a Zommy.

What I found so scary was how willing Buffy was to open that door. I feel it
was at that point Dawn realized that she must be the strong one.

"Mommy?" That sent chills down me.


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[> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Anthony8, 18:36:04 04/19/01 Thu

Yeah, I thought there was some good role reversal going on here too. Dawn
played the Slayer this episode, from stealing the Ghora eggs (remember
Spikes "bitty Buffy" comment)to ultimately doing the right thing in
terminating the resurrection spell.


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[> [> [> role Reversal -- Diana Michelle, 14:55:34 04/20/01 Fri

And she was highly impulsive. Also a Buffy trait.


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[> Jen C did it, my turn now :) -- Solitude1056, 19:52:14 04/18/01 Wed

Check out my post under the Angel & Willow lies thread, about Willow's
intentions. Now, that all said, I do wonder: it's been made clear that
performing "magic" in the Wiccan sense, in the Buffyverse, isn't something
that just anyone can do. Although I'm not sure if they've tried, AFAIK
neither Spike nor Xander nor Cordy have any abilities. Knowledge, yes;
abilities, no. It seems that some do, some don't. I'm wondering if -
assuming Willow was even aware that Dawn was serious about the idea - Willow
was acting under the impression that Dawn doesn't have the "juice" that's
needed.

This is still putting a minus in Willow's column, for not having the clear
head to stop and ask these questions. But like I point out elsewhere, I
think Willow's headspace is full of emotional interference right now.


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[> [> witchcraft in the Buffyverse -- purplegrrl, 09:53:08 04/19/01 Thu

***it's been made clear that performing "magic" in the Wiccan sense, in the
Buffyverse, isn't something that just anyone can do***

I guess I'm not sure that it's clear that magic doesn't work for just anyone
in the Buffyverse. There's a lot of magic and magical stuff floating around
in the Buffyverse. Magic users include Giles, Jenny, Willow, Tara, Anya (as
Anyanka and as a human), Angel, Buffy, Ethan, the Mayor, Amy, Catherine
(Amy's mom), and now Dawn. Oz, Xander, and Cordelia have assisted with
spells. Jenny had a techno-coven over the Internet. Giles' customers may or
may not be doing "magic." And I think Spike has even dabbled a little. This
is an awful lot of people if not just anyone can work magic. (OK, granted,
they're on the Hellmouth, so maybe that helps.)

Which is not to say that all these people *should* be doing magic - at least
not on a regular basis. But they have all shown they can at least follow the
"recipe" in a spell book.

From what I've seen of magic in the Buffyverse, there are several elements
that make it effective or work correctly - the correct incantation, the
appropriate ingredients, desire for the outcome, strength of will to
accomplish it, and magical ability. And the least of these seems to be
magical ability. Tara, Amy, and Catherine are natural witches. Giles and
Willow have learned how to use magic. Jenny and Ethan may or may not have
any natural ability with magic, but at least are powerful "learned" magic
users. Most of the rest use magic only when it is the only solution -
destroying a magical object, entering into a trance, assisting in fighting
evil, etc.

I think it's more appropriate to say that, at least in the Buffyverse, magic
isn't something that just anyone *should* do.


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[> [> Xander's potential power -- Diana Michelle, 15:02:44 04/20/01 Fri

Well, he did set a book on fire just by speaking. And I have to wonder if
him wanting Buffy to live so much helped her more than the CPR.


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[> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Wiccagrrl, 19:53:41 04/18/01 Wed

I think Willow was very irresponsible, and I agree with the posts talking
about how Tara has been the more grounded, moral one. OTOH, I don't really
think that Willow intended Dawn to do the spell. As she said to Tara, she
figured it would answer some of her questions, maybe help explain why this
wasn't such a hot idea. But she didn't think it through- she was putting a
book with some very dangerous info into the hands of someone who wasn't in a
position to be thinking very clearly, and then left that person to figure
out what to do with the information. It was careless and dangerous, and
while I think she intended to help Dawn, that wasn't the way to do it.


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[> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Jen C., 20:04:07 04/18/01 Wed

I've been thinking for a while that Willow seems really unsuited to be a
Wiccan. She's always seemed a lot more sorcerer-like to me. (anyone remember
the Techno-Mages from Babylon 5?). She doesn't seem so much into the
religion part of it all, and seems to have very little appreciation for the
"balance" that Tara finds all-important. Before she discovered magic, she
used her computer skills to offer whatever help she could. Now, magic is her
first recourse whenever faced with a problem. She uses magic as a weapon, or
a solution to problems, not as any type of sacrament. I think that this
utilitarian attitude towards magic may stem from her long association with
Buffy and the necessities of backing up the slayer. It should be interesting
to see where her relationship with Tara goes in relation to this issue,
because I don't think that she shares Tara's attitude towards magic.


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[> [> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- Rufus, 21:11:47 04/18/01 Wed

I think that the problem with Willow is that she got power before wisdom.
Tara was brought up with Wicca and was taught the ethical use of magic.
Willow has the kindest intent but she uses magic like a dependable tool that
will work the same way all of the time. She doesn't understand that power
misused can go very wrong. Kind intent isn't enough when it comes to power
you don't fully understand. Willow wanted to soften the blow of Joyces death
for Dawn, but the only way to get over grief is to live through it. I think
that's what Dawn realised at the end of the ep.
Willow is going to make a mistake due to her impatience. I think of a quote:

"For every complex problem, there is a solution that is simple, neat, and
wrong." HL Menkin

Willow was giving Dawn the lead to an easy solution, that was very wrong.
Death and the grief after a death is a complex problem that has no simple
solution. You have to grieve and spells won't make it better. Willow is kind
but magic isn't always the answer to a problem. Tara understands that and I
hope will be able to teach Willow to think before she casts a spell.


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[> Re: Willow was irresponsible -- curious, 22:41:50 04/18/01 Wed

I used to really like Willow back in the highschool years, but I seem to
have lost that emmotional connection to her over the last 2 seasons.

It's as if Willow regards use of Magic as a solution to life and everthing
else, similar to solving a complex algebraic problem. She's been reminding
me of a child playing with a new toy. She's like the quinessential curious
scientist who experiments because she can, and never stopping to ask if she
should. Again like a gifted child that is pleased with her own abilities to
do remarkable things. To Willow, it appears that a successful outcome is
justification enough for performing it.

It appears that Tara knows alot more than she lets on. It's obvious now that
she has a very grounded sense of responsibilty towards her choosen art. I
hope she imparts that wisdom to Willow before something really horrible
happens to one or more of them. I think Willow is good person, but her
softheartedness sometimes gets in the way of her good jugdement.

I can't help but shudder at the thought of the emotional damage that might
have been done to the girls, especially Buffy, if "Pet Semetary Mom" were to
have walked through the door. (The episode heavily implied an unnatural
resurrection, so I'm going with it.) Not only would Buffy's last images of
her kind, loving and gentle mother be replaced by an unnatural abberation
from beyond the grave, but she would most likely have to destroy it. How
psychologically devestating would that have been? I'm glad that Dawn had the
strength to do the right thing. Kudos to her, because she also would have
been terribly traumatized by having to witness such a scene.


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[> Leaving us hanging -- verdantheart, 07:04:02 04/19/01 Thu

Which was exactly where they wanted us! We can imagine dozens of scary
scenarios as to what Joyce might have been like (Pet Sematary mom, indeed
(don't remember offhand how Mr. King misspelled that one ...))! Often the
question is scarier than the answer. Very Val Lewton of them!

- vh




Willow's way v. Tara's -- Darrick, 20:14:40 04/18/01 Wed

As several people have pointed out below, Willow and Tara seem to have
diverging opinions on what constitutes "proper" use of magic. Tara seems to
take the view that there traditions and boundaries which shouldn't be
violated. As someone said, she views her witchcraft as a religion and
philosophy of life.

Willow is much different. She views magic as a science and doesn't seem to
acknowledge any boundaries at all. This is true to her character as it has
been written throughout the show's history.

So, the question is, who is correct? IS there one correct way to deal with
magic? Tara's way has its advantages. Presumably, the rituals evolved so
witches could have a reliable and safe means of using magic. Deviating from
these prescribed methods is probably dangerous in the extreme...as Willow
has shown time and again.

But I am suspicious of all arguments which claim that it is unwise to "go
against the natural order" of things. It's just not persuasive to me. Going
by that rule, very few of our technological or medical advances would have
occured. And Dawn made an excellent point in "Forever", when she accused
Tara of violating her own advice every time she floated something. Tara says
that "life and death" are different. Does that mean that if someone was
sick, they should just stand by and do nothing? How far is too far? To me,
relying on a set of ancient beliefs to excuse inaction when you have the
power to intervene is troubling. I compare it to the behavior of certain
religious sects in relying on prayer, while rejecting medical technology, to
deal with illness.

Having said all of the above, I feel that Willow still screwed up. Her
problem isn't that she takes risks, it's that she lacks the confidence to be
forthright and honest in what's she's doing. She tries to hide everything
behind her facade of "nice-ness" in order to avoid confrontation. I think
she's got the right idea, to experiment with magic and find new ways of
applying it. Her execution is totally wrong and has led to many unfortunate
consequences.

This resurrection business is a perfect example. If she were serious about
treating magic like a scientific tool she would discuss with Dawn the
possible consequences of such a spell. They could even do experiments on
dead animals and such to get a feel for how it might work. If it failed
miserably with them, then she could easily persuade Dawn of the problems
with such a spell. Instead, she takes a sort of passive-aggressive stance
and makes Dawn aware of the possiblity without informing her of the dangers.
It's entirely possible that the risks of doing resurrection spells outweighs
the possible benefits. Leaving aside Tara's customs, if Willow was being
honest with herself she might have figured that out.

As I said, I don't have a problem with her goal, to gain a fuller
understanding of magic and how it works. The problem is in the means she
uses. I think she has to overcome her doubts and fear of confrontation in
order to really bring her interests out in the open. Giles, Buffy, Xander,
and Tara, would certainly frown on those experiments, but if she were open
and honest with them maybe she could discover some worthwhile uses for magic
while avoiding the worst kind of unintended consequences.


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[> Re: Willow's way v. Tara's -- Scott L., 07:01:44 04/19/01 Thu

Willow said that she wasn't sure it was possible to bring Joyce back. I
don't think she was lying. I think she didn't know that it could really
happen.

I think that she left the book out for the reasons that she stammered, that
she wanted Dawn to understand the history of the decision. She didn't
realize that Dawn would be resourceful enough to take a history book and
find practical application of the knowledge found within.

That was where Willow messed up. Tara understands that Dawn is capable of a
lot, through pure Summers tenacity, if need be.




Intervention and Tough Love (Spoilers BEWARE!!!) -- Eania Snow, 20:35:01
04/18/01 Wed

WARNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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WARNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Read some info about the 2 up and comming episodes. Intervention is going to
be the Buffy Bot with Buffy dealing with the first slayer again. I really
really really hope they do something good and unexpected with the buffy bot
because every time I think about it, the whole idea just seems lame to me. I
mean real lame. However I do have faith in JM now im sure it will be good
and unexpected.

Now for the biggy In tough love on of the scobbies gets it from Glory. The
snipit I read is one of the Scobbies will be glory's next victem. Victem to
me sounds like dead? Could also mean a mind sucking thing that puts the
person out of commission till they kill glory a few episodes later.

If its going to be a death thing then I have my money riding on Xander. As
has been noted before things are just going to well for him right now. I
also think they have everyone else covered with killing him off as well.
Willow would take it the hardest since she's his best friends but she has
Tarra to help her though it since shes is very strong now. Buffy I don't
know what they would do with her though? 3 People leaving in her life in the
span 2 months is almost impossible to deal with she would snap. Only thing I
could see preventing her from snaping is if Angel was there and that is not
going to happen. However we would also have the benfit of having Anya lose
it completely prehaps might even turn into next seasons badie. Even though I
don't see her as a very scary or amuzing super badie yet anyways.

If its the mind sucking thing then I see Giles getting it. Having giles out
of the picture for a few episodes would make for an interesting no adult to
lean on type of plot line.

Anywho thats just my ranting


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[> Re: Intervention and Tough Love (Spoilers BEWARE!!!) -- Eania Snow,
20:56:24 04/18/01 Wed

Arg! I lost before I even hit the post button. Tarra's the one that gets it.
It better be a mild beating or something. They kill her off and I will be
pissed. Even though if they have to kill someone shes the only one they
could without it effect a bunch of other people seriouly. Kill Xander you
have problems with Willow and Anya is out of the picture no Xander no Anya.

Grrrrrrrrr. Im in a bad mood now.


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[> [> Re: Intervention and Tough Love (Spoilers BEWARE!!!) -- Anthony8,
18:12:13 04/19/01 Thu

One of the spoiler sites said that someone dies, whoever you think it is
think bigger, and that it is not Anya.


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[> [> [> Re: Intervention and Tough Love (Spoilers BEWARE!!!) --
Solitude1056, 19:57:30 04/19/01 Thu

Should I put in spoiler space?

I heard it's Faith.

(bummer.)


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[> [> [> Re: Intervention and Tough Love (Spoilers BEWARE!!!) -- Wiccagrrl,
21:29:51 04/19/01 Thu

Mostly speculation, probably fake rumors, but pretty major spoilers if true.
Don't read if ya don't wanna know.

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Ok, I'm not really buying that any of the core four, or Anya or Tara, are
going to die. BTW, that quote (think bigger) was a Wanda quote. But when she
said that "Whoever you're thinking, you're most likely wrong, think bigger"
line, the first one to come to mind, really only thing, that woulda fit that
is Buffy herself. And rumors have been flying that Buffy'd die in the season
ender. Maybe Wanda's been visiting one to many fannish boards/sites, and
picked up a bogus rumor?


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[> [> [> [> Spoiler Personages -- Solitude1056, 21:00:33 04/20/01 Fri

Who is this Wanda person, anyway?

(I've heard her mentioned on other boards. Editorial comment censored.)

1056


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Spoiler Personages -- Rufus, 23:51:39 04/20/01 Fri

Wanda at eonline.com...click on the gossip section...and you can read about
Buffy moving to UPN as well.




Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers -- Wiccagrrl,
21:40:13 04/18/01 Wed

Ok, I may be really reaching here, but I was rewatching the funeral scene,
and had a thought about the choice of color that they put Buffy, and Tara,
(and Willow and Dawn, I suppose) in. So, everyone leaves, and we are left
with Buffy, Tara, Dawn, and Willow. Dawn and Willow are in fairly
traditional black. But Buffy is in white, and Tara is in red. Kind of odd
colors for a funeral, at least by western/US standards. and then I had a
thought. The three colors (White, Red, and Black) are, at least in Wicca,
symbolic of the lifestyle- the colors that represent the three stages/faces
of the Goddess (Maiden, Mother, Crone) White representing youth (Buffy,
whose childhood is ending) Red representing middle life/motherhood (Tara,
who is the nurturing, mature one in this situation, trying to care for Dawn
and Buffy) and Old Age/Death (The crone- Willow and Dawn- maybe because they
are the ones of the four most allowing themselves to focus on the grief?)

Am I completely out of it, or do you think I'm on to something here?


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[> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers -- Wiccagrrl,
21:44:22 04/18/01 Wed

The three colors (White, Red, and Black) are, at least in Wicca, symbolic of
the lifestyle

Ok, even with having to approve posts, I manage to have typos- sheesh-
pathetic much? Anyway, that was supposed to say Life Cycle, not lifestyle.

Also, I'm not saying that Buffy or Tara chose the clothing because it fit
the "role" they were in, but that maybe the writers/directors chose the
colors because it did sort of symbolize the life cycle, and where the
characters were at.


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[> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Solitude1056, 21:57:56 04/18/01 Wed

Actually, I hadn't noticed what Buffy was wearing (altho I recognize the
coat from several other episodes) - but I did notice that Tara was wearing
that dark red burgundy. That did seem strange to me, since it's not the most
usual color choice. The implication would have to be that she either chose
it, or just doesn't own anything black.

Or we could say it was just the head stylist getting funky with the
clothing, setting us up for the Angel/Buffy color contrast (thx, OnM!). Or
we were supposed to focus on Tara for some foreshadowing reason. On the
other hand, Joss is way too sneaky for songs to be just filler, so I doubt
the colors, lighting, camera angles or any of the rest of it is just filler,
either. Or Joss & crew was bored, and decided to have Tara wear red just
'cause they knew there's a pocket of pseudo-philosophers on the 'net who
would go bonkers trying to figure out the deeper symbolism. Ah, the easily
amused. ;)


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[> [> Re: Easily amused? Ah, yes.. and a low philosophy threshold to boot...
;) -- OnM, 06:35:43 04/19/01 Thu

I also very seriously doubt it was an accident to choose the colors the cast
was wearing in that scene. I know little about Wicca, but I have heard of
the Life Cycles concept, so that makes as much sense to me as anything.

I also think that as a Wiccan, Tara might not just automatically go with the
'conventions' of funerals in the United States, which are, after all,
largely Christian/Judaic in nature, and Wicca is certainly not Christian or
Jewish.

Whatever the reason for the choices, they certainly were effective from a
visual standpoint, as I pointed out in my 'Cinematic' post which you so
kindly referred to. The enjoining of the Buffy/Angel light/dark symbolism
certainly wasn't lost on me, and I'm sure many others got the same vibe.


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[> [> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Masquerade, 11:45:07 04/19/01 Thu

"Or Joss & crew was bored, and decided to have Tara wear red just 'cause
they knew there's a pocket of pseudo-philosophers on the 'net who would go
bonkers trying to figure out the deeper symbolism."

Oh, don't I wish Joss or one of the writers knew of our humble little site
here?? I had this vain hope that the Host's line in "Reprise" about the
"complementary nachos bringing in the morally ambiguous crowd" was a
shout-out to us, but alas, that's just the ol' ego speakin' *sigh* I can
dream.

and remember we don't philosophize for recognition or money, but cuz... of
the fun!


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[> [> [> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Rufus, 12:58:54 04/19/01 Thu

Masquerade, at least on Yahoo your site is highly recommended, even has
little sunglasses beside the name. I found my way here by Yahoo...I wonder
if any of the writers lurk here....I did long enough.


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[> [> [> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Solitude1056, 14:16:20 04/19/01 Thu

and remember we don't philosophize for recognition or money, but cuz... of
the fun!

Money? What money?

(and if your friends & family laugh at you 'cause you hang up on everyone
with a shouted, "not now! Buffy [Angel] is on!" for two hours on Tuesday
evenings, this does not necessarily count as the kind of recognition I think
is meant.)


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[> [> [> [> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Masquerade, 16:37:25 04/19/01 Thu

I was making 34K a year teaching philosophy to little undergraduate grunts.
It's not big money, but it paid the bills. It also gave me NO life
whatsoever. Much more fun doing philosophy as a side-line.

And I don't even answer the phone between 8 and 10 on Tuesday nights.
Although, yeah, my sister laughed in my face one night when I called her in
a panic at 7:55 because the power had gone out in my apartment and I needed
her to tape the episode "Pangs" while I searched for the breaker.

People just don't realize how deep and adult this show is. I guess you have
to watch a few episodes all the way through to catch all the existential
angst and on-screen orgasms.


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[> [> [> [> [> Re: Thought on clothing color choice in Forever...spoilers --
Rufus, 18:36:17 04/19/01 Thu

There is such a thing as an "existential orgasm"?

No one and I mean no one bugs me on Tuesday night. And I agree that Buffy is
a very adult show with a kiddie name. They deal with alot of issues in a way
that gets people thinking...one way or another.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Thoughts on What's in a name? -- OnM, 20:45:05
04/19/01 Thu

I have always assumed that the name of the show is meant to be ironic, in
that it mirrors the world of comics whereby it looks to be silly kid stuff
on the surface but inside the stories deal with real thoughts, emotions, and
certainly philosophy. (Not all of them, of course, but the really good
ones.)

I stopped collecting comic books as I got into my teens, but there is little
question that the themes they dealt with helped shape my thoughts and the
way I approach the realverse. I'm still a huge fan of the regular daily
comic strips that appear in newspapers, I remember that back in the 60's it
was pretty much like talking to a wall to get people to understand that
those 3 or 4 little b&w panels were art. Now, the creator of 'Calvin and
Hobbes' retires the strip, it's front page news, and they're building
memorials to Charles Schultz and Snoopy. 'Dilbertization' is now part of the
American lexicon. Gary Trudeau wins Pulitzers for 'Doonesbury'. The beat
goes on...

It just takes the passage of time, sometimes, for people to appreciate
what's right in front of them.

BTW, Masq, maybe you should get a UPS like they have for your computer and
hook it up to your VCR. If the power goes out you're still OK! (I don't have
one of those yet, but I do record on two VCR's simultaneously in case one
should throw a tantrum at an inopportune moment! ;)


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Thoughts on What's in a name? -- Eaia Snow,
22:24:11 04/19/01 Thu

Tisk Tisk people. Recording in DVD quality on your computer is the way to
go.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: In theory, yes. Scroll down to... -- OnM,
06:07:34 04/20/01 Fri

JBone's thread of last Friday "In need of a fix" and see my response in "Oh
yeah, I guess you could do that.. or maybe this".

Speaking as a videophile, I know where you are coming from, but the
technology is still a little too dicey and expensive at this point *for most
people*. (Hard drive recording and DVD recorders). What is truly sad is that
VCR's *could* be much better than they are quality-wise, but the
entertainment industry has been doing their best for many years now to
degrade, not improve the ability to copy their material. It is the primary
reason that DVD took a good two to three years longer than necessary to
actually reach the streets-- it wasn't technical issues, it was about legal
wrangling and copyright protection.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Buffy on tape -- purplegrrl, 09:54:25 04/20/01 Fri

***I do record on two VCR's simultaneously***

Gee, OnM, and I thought I was compulsive because I tape every episode - even
the re-runs - after not being able to see the pivotal episode where Angelus
kills Jenny until it came out in prerecorded video because I didn't set the
VCR.

I'm not so worried about my VCR throwing a fit as I am with the cable signal
going out - my local WB station tends to have a questionable signal at
times.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: Buffy on tape II - Compulsives 'r' Me! ;) --
OnM, 22:54:59 04/20/01 Fri

LOL! Yes, pg, there is a certain compulsion involved.(I started
timer-recording the show almost every week after I missed 45 minutes of
'Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered' after running very late on a client
meeting one night, the *only* ep I ever missed viewing live since day one
season one. This week I missed the first 10 minutes for the same reason, but
both VCRs were humming along when I got home!)

The main reason though is that both VCRs have a lot of hours on them, and
both have these little image quality quirks that show up at random intervals
(and are therefore nearly impossible to pin down to repair). The quirks are
different, though, and are unlikely to show up at the same time, thus the
dual recording thang.

My cable's been pretty reliable, thankfully, and I used to have access to
WGN on DirecTV, but they dropped Buffy a year or so ago, bummer.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> It's a hard row we hoe -- Brian, 08:50:45
04/21/01 Sat

I've been a fan of BTVS since the end of Season 2.(A friend finally
convinced me to give it a try). I instantly realized what superior writing
the show displayed. Since that time I have tried to convert many people to
the show, but have met with continued failure. Apparently most people just
can't get past the name. Sigh!

On Tuesdays I do not answer the phone. I've let my family and friends know
that I am always unavailable during those two important hours.

I tape all the episodes on my VCR, and try to get them in order. I alternate
the Buffy and Angel episodes as there is usually a cross over of characters,
themes, or deliberate counterpoint.

And, yes, why it is that the WB afiliate is the weakest station on the cable
system, and it seems to tank only on Tuesday nights? Tornado season is
especially hectic here in Kentucky. Thank Heavens for reruns! Although there
are some episodes I've missed, and will have to wait until either the DVDs
come out, or Buffy appears in syndication.
(I heard that this may happen this fall on FX. But I also read an interview
with Joss that it will be chapped up with more commericals. Apparently FX
won't treat the show like they treated X-Files and NYPD Blue) Double Sigh!

Being a big comic book fan, on Wed nights I met with the only other Buffy
fan who frequents the store, and over coffee, we rehash the episodes which
is always great fun!

Of course, finding this board was the icing to cover and sooth those BTVS &
Angel needs. Many thanks, Masquerade, and all the other great contributors
to this board. You folks make my days all the brighter.


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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Re: It's a hard row we hoe -- Masquerade,
13:31:42 04/23/01 Mon

I hear you. I used to live in Nebraska. I missed "Halloween" due to a snow
storm in October (!) and "Band Candy" due to a wind storm. I was able to get
a friend to tape Band Candy that same evening (the phones were working, not
the electricity, go figure), but had to catch Halloween in reruns.

I've taped every ep from day one, but that's me, compulsive rerun watcher.
Oh, no wait--it's necessary for research purposes. Yep, that's what it is.
Transcripts? What transcripts?

Of course, there was the time I accidentally taped over "Choices" getting
"Earshot" put in the one-hour slot I'd left for it for six months. Try
replacing an episode when it's not the current season and when season three
tapes are only on sale in the UK (What's up with that?)! But I managed
somehow!

Thanks for joining in the board!




Ethics of Religion & Science (a bit long) -- Solitude1056, 21:50:15 04/18/01
Wed

Been thinking about the Willow threads and...

It's been oft-repeated that Joss doesn't want to validate any particular
religion with a "rightness" over another religion, especially in the sticky
question of Xtianity with a predominantly Xtian-culture audience. All along
we've seen both Giles and Willow using magic as a science: you put in these
ingredients, you say these words, and presto, this happens. It's a recipe,
not a religion, for them - or so it appears. The one digression into any
appearance of a "religion" for Giles, thus far, has been that E-demon
whatsahoosie, the one with the tattoo shindig. And if I recall correctly,
Giles remarked at some point that at first he & his buddies weren't aware
this was a "real" demon - to some extent, he'd thought they'd faked a great
deal of it, albeit unconsciously. Group hysteria, something like that.

But be that as it may, we've never seen any indication that Giles holds any
particular religous beliefs. For the most part, religion has been largely
absent from 99% of the discussions amongst the Scoobies - except for Willow,
who seems to regularly bring up her Jewish heritage. I'm not certain this is
a depth to which Joss has researched (tho I'd not be surprised, frankly),
but Judaism does have a deep mystical current, which expresses itself in
edgy traditions like the Qabalah and its numerological component, Gematria.
Qabalistic studies are the basis of many modern ceremonial magick
traditions, and essentially boil down to more recipe following: these
letters have this value, switch this around, visualize this, and this is
what you get.

[An aside from the Peanut Gallery Inside Source: with enough skill but
enough ignorance, you can turn just about any combination of letters into
"666," but the validity of the results in the english language (as opposed
to Hebrew) are a thread for another board. Regardless, the PGIS suggests
Foucault's Pendulum by Umberto Eco for an amusing take on the practice, but
doesn't recommend mentioning it to any hardcore Masons or Qabalistics, since
it's rather irreverent. Apparently his own decades of studying Qabalah have
led him to believe that enough time on Gematria will lead you to a final
ultimate statement, hidden somewhere in the sacred texts: "get a life,
qabalah-dweeb."]

But back to the Judeo-magical/mystical traditions, and my impression of
their influence on Willow's perspective. There is no assumption in the
Qabalah that one must believe in a particular Divine entity or an angelic
personage - many of the greatest scholars verged on Jewish heresy - to
achieve a purpose: the words themselves have power in & of themselves.
Qabalah is a science, not a religion, really. So Willow treating other magic
as a science, also, would not be a big step. Add into that Giles' influence
- in terms of his treatment of magic & acts magical - and you've got a pure
scientist, right down to using the Chem Lab in H.S. to do her experiments.

Tara, on the other hand, seems to come from a religous background, albeit
one that may be foreign to much of the audience. Ethically, this gives her a
different perspective, but no less a valid one. Each has its pros & cons. In
a religious framework, magic is positive if its intent is pure (not colored
by personal self-interest), and its ends do not disrupt the 'natural order'
of things - ie, screw up the world created, and run by, a Divine Entity.
It's like having a landlord, and not the absentee landlord of the Xtian
tradition (by that I mean non-participatory in the sense of everyday
reality). You can paint your walls, which is altering your reality, but you
can't just haphazardly go knocking down walls if it pleases you. It's a
matter of degrees, which you obey out of respect for, and worship of, a
particular focus (read: divine entity).

Science, on the other hand, negates the influence of a divine, and values of
positive/negative. Instead, its emphasis is on effectiveness. "We don't know
how or why it works, but it does, so we do it." What doesn't work, doesn't
get used, what does work, gets used. The side-effects, like post-spell
migraines, electrical blackouts, are noted as after-effects but do not
necessarily negate the science-magic's usefulness. Instead, the scientist
seeks to either further tweak the spell until the side-effects are
minimized, or considers the after-shocks to be part & parcel of the spell.
Either they're tolerable, and the spell is used, or they're not, and
something else is found for a solution.

To an observer, it's hard to measure "bad" and "good," but for the sake of
argument let's say that personal discomfort (such as major headaches) are a
bad. To the scientist, if the spell is successful, and the headaches can be
treated with aspirin, then the recipe is effective with qualifications. To
the theist, if the spell is successful, but there are headaches afterwards,
this may be a sign that you just thwacked your paintbrush and nearly knocked
down a wall... and that the landlord is telling you to back off.

Getting back to Joss' stance on remaining neutral concerning particular
mainstream religions, I'd be interested to see how the apparent divergence
between Tara & Willow might resolve - or if the resolution will happen
onscreen at all. A belief system, in & of itself, is appearing to have more
& more strength (in the Buffyverse) in terms of successful
self-preservation, rather than the disinterested poking about of a novice
scientist. "The operation was a success, even if the patient did die."

I make that statement of self-preservation because so far it's appeared that
Tara's had little to no backlash from the workings she's done, and she's
mentioned none about any of her independent stuff previous to meeting
Willow. That stands in stark contrast to Willow's history of treating a
spell as a recipe and not realizing that more or less energy, juice,
experience, or what-have-you may be needed, that's not listed in the recipe.
So when things blow up, Willow doesn't have a measure for what it was that
went wrong, she can only note the recipe's tangible ingredients, determine
whether the side-effects were tolerable, and continue from there.

Ok, so a lot of this may be garbled, but it's just something that occured to
me...

1056


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[> Re: Ethics of Religion & Science (a bit long) -- Wiccagrrl, 22:05:01
04/18/01 Wed

I'm always a bit hesitant to really comment on the witchcraft on Buffy,
because I'm Wiccan, and it really doesn't bear much resemblance to the Wicca
that I practice, and I know my own views/experience color much of how I view
it. One example- healing spells are very common in Wicca in my experience.
Now, the results aren't usually as tangible as magic in the Buffyverse, but
doing a spell to help give someone the energy/strength to help fight an
illness isn't considered off bounds. According to Tara, in the Buffyverse,
they are.

That said, I do think that with any power, there comes responsibility, and
that there have to be limits and a sense of what your boundaries are- and
that goes for science as well as magic, IMO. And Willow seems to be lacking
that sense of what is crossing the line, or even that there is a line.


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[> [> Re: Ethics of Religion & Science (a bit long) -- Rufus, 22:38:53
04/18/01 Wed

I'll repeat the quote:

"For every complex problem, there is a solution that is simple, neat, and
wrong." HL Menkin

I love that quote. I agree that Willow sees magic as more of a science
project than something more complex. There is a reason that Tara warned both
Willow and Dawn about fiddling with the natural order of things. Some things
aren't meant to be tampered with for good reason. Willow has good intentions
but to see life and the bringing forth of life as a science experiment is
folly. Too many things go wrong. Sometimes as humans we have to suffer,
death and loss are things we have to suffer through not cure through a
magical experiment. I hope that Tara shows Willow the way and makes her
realise that the natural order is there for a reason. Float a pencil, but
leave the dead alone. With magic comes responsiblilty and consequences. Tara
and the Wiccans know this from experience passed down through time, Willow
has power but lacks the maturity to use it wisely.


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[> [> Re: Ethics of Religion & Science (a bit long) -- Solitude1056,
22:58:05 04/18/01 Wed

Discussing the Buffyverse type of magic doesn't bother me, because it
appears to be logical extrapolation. Let's say that magic is a musical
instrument - let's say it's a flute. In our universe, when we try to play
the flute, most of the time we get nothing. Sometimes we think we're getting
a sound, but we can't be sure. Other times a bunch of us together are
convinced we heard a clear sound, but a disinterested observer remarks a
train was passing in the next valley & it echoes... you get the idea.

Now, in the Buffyverse, that flute makes quite a pretty sound. It boils down
to two types of playing, as characterized (thus far) by Willow/Giles, and
Tara. Science measures the pitch of each note, and determine logically the
note that must follow in order that the notes be identified as a melody.
Religion just plays whatever, but within a holistic (altho I hate that word
in pop culture, it fits here) perspective. Ok, without rambling into that
bad analogy tooooo far...

Tara's ethics concerning healing are consistent with her attitude that this
verges on life-and-death situations, which are best left in the hands of
some Greater Power. Although it's been mentioned elsewhere (a while back)
that Willow's been more assertive since Tara came along, I'd say Willow is
more self-confident, but she takes a backseat when Tara suddenly stands up
about magic. Without Tara delivering the caveats, I suspect Willow would
have tried a healing spell for Buffy, and may have even experimented with
Dawn, even if only with the intent to demonstrate for Dawn that it's not a
good idea - but she herself would have rationalized her own participation as
being solely for the purpose of gathering information, and thus having a
negligible influence in a scientific sense. In a religious sense, she's not
justified IMO.

I do know Wicca, and I'm aware there's a mainstream trend in it concerning
healing actions on behalf of others - particularly that you don't do such
without the person's awareness and consent. As a Shinto Buddhist, I don't
mind my Xtian father praying for my safety when I travel... but if he got a
whole prayer group together at a tent revival, that might be another matter.
*grin* That verges on the issue of the Buffybot: the idea that someone
else's prayers/actions somehow, although perhaps unaffective upon reality,
still emotionally transgress on your personal space.

Joss has messed with the Wiccan paradigm to some extent, although with
Tara's introduction he's gotten more towards the mainstream system, it
seems. Willow's got a long history of calling it "the black arts," which to
me is a rather negative attitude. I've yet to hear Tara call it such, tho I
could be wrong. Tara doesn't seem to be measuring things by the same ruler -
back to the science vs. religion aspect. Essentially, Joss is playing a huge
game of "let's pretend" when it comes to our reality's understanding of
different religions.

Let's pretend that magic really does things, and that you really can make
things float, become invisible, worship demons, turn snakes into
heat-seaking missiles, etc. Seen through the eyes of an audience unused to
such power, Willow's nonchalant attitude towards the consequences may not
ruffle too many feathers, ethically: we're so used to magic not working that
we're unused to the idea that we should stop & consider what might happen if
it did. This is where Tara comes in.

If there are God(s) who contain power and answer one's call, then who's to
say that there might not be a backlash for interfering with one God's plan?
And what about the idea that one God may see no reason to help a sufferer
who isn't also a worshipper of that God? And what if modern medicine is
doing just fine solving the problem, and your energy thrown in the wrong
direction just makes it worse? Some stoves are way too hot to touch, if we
continue with the premise that magic is effective. Energy thrown in the
direction of a person about to undergo surgery, in the Buffyverse, might be
effective - but is it really a positive thing to shove the surgeon
energetically right when s/he is about to perform a delicate maneuver?

But in the end, Willow's intentional blindness to the consequences are
finally becoming clear as a negative trait. Without Tara's presence, though,
we might not have had the chance to see her mistakes as more than humorous.
We had no comparison other than Giles, and Willow doesn't yet have Giles'
more mature ability to measure the possible consequences. Giles doesn't
appear to have "religion," per se, but he does have caution.


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[> [> [> Re: Ethics of Religion & Science (a bit long) -- Wiccagrrl,
23:33:34 04/18/01 Wed

I do know Wicca, and I'm aware there's a mainstream trend in it concerning
healing actions on behalf of others - particularly that you don't do such
without the person's awareness and consent.

For many Wiccans, doing any magic on behalf of someone else without their
knowledge or consent is considered to be baneful, going against the "harm
none" creed, because it takes away/interferes with their free will. You
don't really know, unless you've talked to them, what they would want or if
they'd be comfortable with it. That's one of those "boundaries" that I was
talking about. But I've rarely heard of healing magic in and of itself as
being considered baneful, which is what Tara was basically saying when she
said any healing magic was a no-no and would only make things worse.

In the real world, I tend to view most spells as being a more active form of
prayer- a way of focusing one's energy, calling on/connecting with "the
powers that be" Now, whether we are really being aided by powers larger than
ourselves, or whether we are really just focusing our own energies and
tapping into our own inner resources is open to debate.

I do see your point that if spells really worked in the way they do in the
Buffyverse, it would make things very, very different. That said, the fact
that the results are more immediate, physical, and tangible makes a careless
attitude towards those powers just that much more dangerous.


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[> [> [> [> healing magic -- purplegrrl, 15:44:49 04/19/01 Thu

Perhaps "healing magic" in the Buffyverse and in the Realverse are vastly
different. I got the impression that the healing magic Tara was talking
about being a no-no was to make Joyce's tumor just go away, poof, and she
would be well again. Whereas Realverse Wiccans who do healing magic are
attempting to bolster the sick person's own healing abilities and mental and
physical strength to either fight the illness or be at peace with the
inevitable outcome.

I can still see where having the person's consent before performing healing
magic on them would be considered prudent and respectful.


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[> [> [> Re: The Black Arts -- Malandanza, 22:09:41 04/22/01 Sun

***Joss has messed with the Wiccan paradigm to some extent, although with
Tara's introduction he's gotten more towards the mainstream system, it
seems. Willow's got a long history of calling it "the black arts," which to
me is a rather negative attitude. I've yet to hear Tara call it such, tho I
could be wrong...Let's pretend that magic really does things, and that you
really can make things float, become invisible, worship demons, turn snakes
into heat-seaking missiles, etc. Seen through the eyes of an audience unused
to such power, Willow's nonchalant attitude towards the consequences may not
ruffle too many feathers, ethically: we're so used to magic not working that
we're unused to the idea that we should stop & consider what might happen if
it did.***

It seems to me as though, in the Buffyverse, all magic is black. There is
always a price to pay for power extracted (just ask Jonathan or Wesley's
ex-girlfriend). Whether it is a quid pro quo with a demon or capricious
powers perverting the intent of the spell (be careful what you wish for...),
spells seem inherently evil. Even with Buffy, the source of her slayer
powers may ultimately be darker even than Dracula has alluded to. In some
cases (like the curse she almost placed on Veruca), Willow has directly
supplicated evil powers. In other cases, she has inadvertantly attracted
their attention (D'Hoffyrn).

My theory is that if you want a spell to do exactly what you wish, a price
must be paid (sacrifice goats or your daughter, become a demon -- or even a
physical price such as Willow's chronic migraine after the teleportation
spell). If you allow the powers some leeway to fulfill the letter of your
desires in a manner of their own choosing, the price is less significant.
The trade-off is that the demons granting your wishes aren't the fairy
godmother variety -- they will create as much havoc as possible while still
providing you with the literal fulfillment of your wishes. A Monkey's Paw or
Evil Genie style of magic.

Thus, with healing magic, where a very specific result is required, the
price might be too steep. Contrast that with the non-specific "bring my dead
mother back" spell -- a relatively easy spell to cast because it permits the
forces animating the body to wreak havoc.

Are there some spells that do not require a price and are not inherently
evil? Probably -- spells like floating the pencil -- where the power
required is minimal and the results trivial. Whatever powers these spells
may do so to encourage young witches down the path of their own damnation
(see how safe and easy magic is? why not try a trickier spell...?)




Ben Good, Glory Bad, Doc ???? (Possible Spoiler) -- Eania Snow, 04:48:51
04/19/01 Thu

Rumor around the camp fire is that the Doc is going to be the third hell
god. Im currious to know what he is going to be like if this is true. Ben is
seen as Good (even though some of his actions have been b